The first time I had sex, it was everything I could have ever wanted. It was intimate, not too painful and with someone I loved. That was enough...for the first time. Soon I realized, having had sex much later in life than any of my friends, I had this urgency in me to experiment - a LOT. And even though I was very comfortable talking about sex with my boyfriend, I was still rarely the person who initiated new things in the bedroom (or outside the bedroom, for that matter).
So every time my boyfriend suggested something new, I would respond with a lot of enthusiasm, hoping to convey what I was really thinking. Like the time he finally got a bit rough with me...Finally! I've been waiting so long for you to pull my hair like that!And then the time when our hotel room had a balcony that looked over the lake...Ohmygod, yes, yes, let's do it in the balcony, that's what it's there for. And how can I forget that time when we made good use of the curtain ties…I was wondering when we would get to this, but I never thought it would be like this! Many such different adventures later, one night, in the middle of getting really hot and heavy, he whispered into my ear, ‘God, I really want to spank your ass right now.’ I was NOT stunned. I was relieved! He had finally said it - and I like to think that my increased grinding moves had something to do with it. I don't think he expected me to let him try it. He wasn't even expecting an answer really, when I asked him, ‘So why don't you do it?’
His eyes flew open, suddenly he was looking at me way too attentively. And then he laughed! ‘You never stop surprising me, woman!’ He grabbed me from the waist, twisted me around, and proceeded to do exactly what I had challenged him to do.And it was amazing! He started out lightly but he had a firm hand. After only a few smacks, neither of us could hold off any longer. I'll never forget how mind blowing the sex was that night. The mix of pleasure and a little bit of pain was...an addictive feeling. That was two years ago and spanking still plays a huge part in our sex lives. It's something both of us love and have been experimenting with for a long time now. Sometimes it's perfect foreplay and sometimes it's actually the main act. But every time, it's just even more exciting!Images: Shutterstock