Dear girlfriends, we love you, and being in bed with you is basically the most awesome thing for us guys. And while the sex is great anyway, we thought we’d tell you a few little secrets to make it even better! So here’s presenting a few sex tips from boyfriends everywhere...
1. Spice is nice
Even if it’s just a question of changing location, or acting out a fantasy both of us share - everything new we try is just amazing. So even if we have our absolute fav positions and preferences, let’s never become “routine”!
2. Oral is always awesome
Yes, yes, we know that most of us are guilty of wanting to receive more than we give, but trust us, oral sex is always brilliant. There’s just something so intimate about having your mouth on us, or letting us get our heads down there between your legs. It’s just A+++.
Although we’re the ones mostly accused of wanting to skip the foreplay and get right down to business, it’s not really true. Instant gratification is not what all of us guys want, and we like taking our time when exploring your bodies. (And obvs, you exploring ours is pretty awesome too!)
4. Don’t think about how you look - let’s focus on how we both feel
Confidence is always sexy - and if you love and admire your body as much as we do, that’s a really big turn-on. Because, let’s face it, if we didn’t completely love the way you look, we wouldn’t be in bed with you, would we? :P
5. A little less conversation, a little more action…
Ladies, this one is real and important. We genuinely don’t multitask as much as you do - and in bed we actually, and quite literally, can’t! All the blood is flowing downwards from our brain and to you-know-exactly-where. So while you might want to talk about stuff as we make out, all we can absorb is that your voice is lovely - since, you know, our brains have turned into mush.
And this is something we worry about too. Whether you’re enjoying everything we’re doing as much as us. And whether your orgasms are real or faked! Please be vocal, tell us what you love and what you don’t, let us feel your true, genuine pleasure.
7. Anticipation is half the fun!
This one’s for all those times that we’re not together! Sext us, let us know you’re thinking of us, tell us what you enjoyed and what more you’d like to do to us… We want you, and this would just make us want you right NOW.