We are sure that by now you all must have heard all about the famous G-spot, but did you know that men have one as well? Yes, you read that right! This gland is located behind the penis and can be easily stimulated through the rectum. One of the most fun ways to make your partner feel this pleasure is by trying out pegging.
Pegging is when a woman wears a strap-on dildo and penetrates her partner anally. While, of course, all genders and sexualities can have anal sex using a sex toy, the term pegging usually refers to the anal penetration of a cis man by a cis woman. Sounds simple enough? For many couples, this can be life-changing as it can completely transform your sex life.
If you are planning to try pegging with your partner here’s everything you need to know about it. Let’s go!
Talk it out
Pegging isn’t something you just jump into mid-session without any discussion. Both partners must be prepared for it, mentally and physically. Often men are wary of this idea, so you can start small and build your way up.
Pick The Right Toy
The world of sex toys has everything and anything you can ask for when it comes to anal sex. Explore different types of toys and then pick the one you both are comfortable with. If you are completely clueless, just know this— anal beads or bullet vibrators can help your partner prepare for a strap on dildo.
Before You Tap It, Wrap It
With anal play, you need to be careful about hygiene. Unprotected anal sex leaves you exposed to a wide range of sexually transmitted diseases like chlamydia, gonorrhoea, HIV, herpes, and hepatitis. It’s important that you use protection before you attempt anal sex, even if you are using a dildo.
Remember To Use Lube—A Lot Of It!
The anus does not produce its own lubrication so it’s important that you use a lubricant when you try pegging. A silicone-based lubricant will keep things moving smoothly. There are tons of options available in the market when it comes to lube. FYI, here’s a pro tip— stay away from oil-based lubricants like petroleum jelly as they may damage the condom.
Listen To Your Partner
Pegging puts your guy in a vulnerable position and not everyone is cool with it. If he is uncomfortable during intercourse, stop immediately. You can always try again next time. There are multiple positions that you can try so don’t limit yourself to doggy style. From see-saw, the spoon and even the cross, experiment to find what works for you and your partner.
Keep Communicating
Here’s a super important tip— it is not enough to just talk before pegging—you need to constantly communicate with your partner during intercourse. Now you don’t have to make the convo bland, keep it as sexy and dirty as you like! Just keep your partner engaged and have fun.
Pegging can be delightful, sexy and pretty kinky! So, are you ready to give it a shot?
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