Everyone likes a sexy surprise in bed. And take our word, your hubby will love a good hand job the next time things get too hot and sweaty in bed. Yeah, we know what you’re thinking… A hand job virgin, are you? Well girl, there’s always a first time. So slip into that racy negligee and follow these awesome tips for the perfect hand job. He’ll be left wanting more by the end of it, we swear!!
1. Position yourself right
Now hand jobs can go on for long. And you don’t want to be in an unflattering or uncomfortable position while you’re at it. On your knees on the floor or a comfortable position on the bed, in between his legs. Now that should be perfect.
2. Make eye contact
Your husband needs to know that you’re into it and enjoying it just as much. And eye contact itself can be a huge turn on. So don’t shy away from looking at him. Every time he moans in pleasure or rolls back his eyes, you’ll know that he’s loving that move of yours.
3. What’s your speed?!
There is no set rule to how fast or slow you must go. Every man likes it different and as you get into the act, you’ll be able to tell just what your husband likes. Just start it nice and slow and gradually build up the intensity.
4. You gotta do the top too!
It’s their most sensitive part and you don’t want to miss out on giving him that pleasure. The top part of his penis is full of sensitive nerve endings and must not be ignored. A light stroke with your thumb is just what will set his heart racing.
5. And oh, the balls!
Yeah, yeah, there’s more to a good hand job. You’ve got to caresses his balls too. But be extremely gentle as the area is sensitive. A light stroke is all it will takes to make your man go from oh-my to oh-my-gawwwd!
6. Use a little lube
Just so important. Dry doesn’t really feel good. And it’ll only make your man feel super uncomfortable. Use some lube, especially if it’s your first time. And if you plan to go faster, things need to be a little wet to avoid friction!
7. Did someone say dirty talk?
From a racy dress to eye contact, dim lights and some dirty talk. The overall mood makes a huge difference to the experience. And a hand job coupled with his wifey going all dirty with the talk, well, what more does a man want!!
8. Don’t stick to a routine
Like we said, a hand job can take time. Make it exciting by surprising him ever too often. You can go slow and then pace it up a little, a soft blow on his balls, and then some dirty talk. Alternate between both the hands and maybe use both too for a bit. Use your fingertips to stroke the head and don’t forget to make use of your boobs too!
9. It’s not just about the hand job
Don’t limit yourself to just that. Indulge in long wet kisses, stroke his hair, gently kiss his nipples, ask him to fondle your breasts. And lastly, just enjoy the act. He’ll be ready and craving for another session pretty soon. *wink*
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