At the beginning of any relationship, we are all at our very best to keep our partner impressed at all times. As time passes and we become closer and more comfortable with them. Certain things start changing as we drop our act and start being our unapologetic natural selves. This is the point where the actual love story begins and we come around to loving our sweetheart for who they really are and expect them to love us for who we are. Here are a few things you should not bother about in a relationship!
The perks of being in an awesome relationship include the comfort of waxing and shaving only when you want to, and not when you need to impress your partner.
Tip-toeing around the house in your PJs and his oversized T-shirt with your face covered in yellow face pack is absolutely acceptable! And as for dressing up, you make an effort only when you’ve gotta go out and the rest of the time you can be your natural imperfect but awesome self.
All that proper conversation with filters (and no swear words) that you used to have with your partner during the initial period, slowly wear out as you become more and more comfortable. And as you fall in love, you start speaking your mind without the fear of being judged.
You shamelessly burp and fart in front of your partner without feeling the need to even say, ‘I didn't do it’.
This means you can talk incessantly about your period (bloating, bleeding, pimples, crazy sex drive) and also PMS all you like, that too unapologetically. After all, a girl’s gotta do what a girl’s gotta do.
When you’re really in love, then you can have honest discussions with your partner and speak your mind without the fear of offending or losing him. And trust us, honesty in a relationship does feel liberating.
When you no longer have to hesitate to make the first move or demanding some TLC in bed from your sweetheart, it is a sign of true love!
If you're in the middle of a crucial conversation, then peeing with the door open and talking alongside is perfectly normal. No judgements, cause’ we understand that you’re in love and conversations can’t stand the wait of peeing!
Unsexy things about your partner like morning breath and snoring can be a pain at the beginning. But as love takes over, you really get around it (or ignoring it).
Congrats girl, if you and your sweetie are comfortable discussing poop then you’ve crossed a new milestone in your relationship.
P.S. Everyone poops, so why not talk about it?
“EEEWWW gross!” nah ah. That ship sailed long ago, come and kiss me with my runny nose baby! Muaah.