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Going Down On Him For The First Time? 10 Tips To Help You Out!

Arya Khanna

Guest Contributor

Going down on your guy can be a hard task… No pun intended! How do you do it? How do you begin? How do you end? What happens in between? The questions are endless! All we can say is, practice makes both men and women perfect! Here are 10 tips on how to give a blowjob, that every girl should keep in mind!

1. Take the lead


Men find it insanely attractive when a girl initiates oral sex. The element of surprise really gets them going. So, this time around, don’t wait for him to ask if it is okay with you. Just do it on your own and see the magic unfold!

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2. Let yourself linger


When it comes to going down on your man, it’s important to not be in a rush. He really wants to enjoy the moment and savour every bit of it. And nothing can turn a girl on as much as the power of making a guy squirm in delight. So, go slow and graze your lips slowly all over his body before you reach the destination!

3. Make eye contact


For him, the view from up there is absolutely amazing! But he doesn’t just want to see the top of your head. Let your eyes meet his and feel the electric passion flow through your bodies.

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4. Lick - the only ‘L’ word you need


It’s time to get down and dirty, ladies! Get into the groove by licking him like you would a melting ice cream. This will not just help him get turned on but also get you into the groove of things.

5. Your mouth and hands should be a package deal


Use both your hands and mouth together instead of just one thing at a time. While technically blowjobs only require you to use your mouth, it helps a great amount if you are mixing it up with a handjob. It also takes some pressure off, trust us!

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6. Take breaks


If your mouth starts to ache then there is no harm in taking a short break. Kiss his thighs or just gently graze them so that both of you don’t lose the feeling!

7. Include his ‘other’ parts


You can’t just focus on one part of his body. Move your hands around and most importantly play with his other two ‘boys’, if you know what we mean! And if you add your tongue in the mix, it'll totally blow his mind!

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8. Vary the speed


Nobody likes monotony, right? Shake up the speed a little. Go slow, then go fast, then slow it down again! Keep him guessing what’s next! *Wink*

9. Use lube if you have to


You have to understand that his penis needs to be wet for a good blowjob and your mouth might not be wet enough to do that job. So give the lube a shot but make sure you use water-soluble (even a flavoured one, if you like!) lubricant since you will be ingesting it at some point.

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10. Keep finding new tricks to try!


Finally, a great blowjob is nothing but a woman who knows her tricks! For example, placing the tip of your tongue on the roof of your mouth and then letting his member hit the underside of your tongue gives the perfect illusion of going deep without really doing it! Or place your tongue on the top spot of his penis and apply a little bit of pressure. It is such a specific spot that he would be left surprised and super aroused at the same time!
So, go ahead girls, try all these little tips and tricks the next time you go down on him!

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Published on Jan 04, 2017
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