15 Things Confident Girls Do Differently In Their Relationships
Sneha ManandharLifestyle Writer
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Not everyone is perfect and no one should expect a relationship to be happy and perfect always. However, much of how happy you want the relationship to be could totally depend on who you are as a person. Confident girls do some things differently and generally tend to be happier in their relationships. So, are you a confident girl?
1. She goes dutch
She knows that if equality is to work, it should work both ways. She finds the "guys should pay for everything" logic extremely flawed. She insists on going dutch every time and if not that she likes to take turn to pick up the check. And this is something she is always respected for!
2. She knows exactly when to put herself first
Yes, there are times when she will need to put her guy, friends or family first but she knows exactly when she needs to be selfish. She knows that she’s earned every right to be selfish and that is why she doesn’t feel guilty about it.
3. She never doubts how she is in bed
She is a Goddess in bed and she knows it too. She knows what she likes and dislikes and isn't ashamed of any of it. She doesn’t ask for validation about her body or what she looks like because she already knows she slays.
4. She doesn’t question if his friends and folks like her
She knows that she is a fun person most of the time and has an amiable personality. She can get along with anyone and hence, knows that it won’t take long for people to like her!
She doesn’t believe in lying to her guy at all and expects the same kind of honesty in return too. She wants everything out in the open and for everything to stay clear to avoid complications in the future.
6. She doesn’t put up with ill-manners
If her man pisses her off, she will make sure that such behaviour is never repeated. Even if it's something small, she's isn't afraid to talk about how she’s feeling.
7. She makes sure that she’s treated as an equal
She can do everything he can do and probably do some of it better too. It's a fact of life, isn't it? She makes sure that she is treated as an equal in and out of the relationship.
8. She doesn’t demand attention
She doesn’t need to. She knows that her guy has a life and priorities other than her too and when he’s free, they will talk and catch up. Infact, she prefers it this way!
She let’s her man chill with his friends, even if they're his female friends. She trusts him a 100% and knows that he would do nothing to harm their relationship or her.
10. She depends on herself
She is fiercely independent and will rarely ever ask for help. Even when there is something about her relationship that bothers her, she doesn't seek help from others - instead, she talks it out with her partner.
11. She has her own thing going on
She doesn’t depend on her guy for fun all the time. She’s got work, a bunch of friends she can chill with and hobbies that keep her busy and occupied! This makes time spent with her guy all the more special to her.
12. She doesn’t hide her man from the world
She wants the world to know that she’s in love and that’s she’s super proud of her guy. She's never hesitant about making him meet the other important people in her life!
13. She doesn’t hold grudges against him
She lets old fights stay in the past and lets bygones be bygones. She knows that bringing up old fights only create more new ones.
14. She doesn't let the fear of a breakup hold her back
There are always some insecurities, disagreements and sensitive topics. That doesn't mean she's going to hold back her feeling just because they might lead to a breakup!
15. She knows when to end the relationship
Knowing when to love is a great quality. But a confident girl also knows when to stop loving. She know when a relationship isn't keeping her happy or is unhealthy for her and knows to end it there!