27 Thoughts We've All Had About Our Boyfriend's Girl Bestie! | POPxo

27 Thoughts We've All Had About Our Boyfriend's Girl Bestie!

Natasha Vazirani

Guest Contributor

So, we all know this situation a bit too well! You’ve started dating a guy you really like. Things are going well - so well, actually, that he wants you to meet his best friend! You’re ecstatic, over the moon even -  until you realize that this elusive bestie that he’s been talking about for so many weeks is, in fact, not a dude…but a girl! We bring you 27 thoughts that cross our mind when we have to deal with our bae’s “bae”. (Don’t worry, you’re not alone - we’ve all been there!)

1. Why is he so close to another girl?

2. Am I not his best friend then?

3. Wait, if “pyaar dosti hai”, am I TINA in this whole thing?

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4. Are they going to get together if we break up?

5. Okay, I shouldn’t get paranoid. I trust him...

6. But can I trust HER?

7. Um, do they have a past that I know nothing about?

8. Hmm. How can I ask him this without sounding completely hysterical?

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9. She better not think I’m jealous of her!

10. I wonder if she’s jealous of me… I think she might be.

11. Is that just because I’m fabulous (!) or because she wants to be more than friends with him?

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12. Hmm. Maybe I should become friends with her too. You know what they say, keep your enemies closer...

13. Argh, should I just tell him that it makes me uncomfortable that she’s always around?

14. No, no - that would just make me sound crazy paranoid and he’d be all “Whaaa?”

15. And I’ll just have to feel all guilty about being jealous over nothing.

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16. I guess he’s known her longer than he’s known me, and they haven’t got together (yet) - so maybe they ARE just friends after all...

17. I bet she has a crush on him - he’s so cute!

18. OMG, is she his “substitute” girlfriend when I’m out of town?

19. Why doesn’t she have a boyfriend???

20. I should set her up!

21. Dammit, I wish I had more guy friends to set her up with.

22. I should start hanging out with guys all the time, see how he’d feel!

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23. Whatever, he loves ME. And she’s not that bad, I guess.

24. It’s nice to have another girl around when we’re at parties with his other friends.

25. And she DOES always offer to drop me home.

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26. Maybe she’s just a really nice girl and that’s why they’re best friends…

27. (Though I really do wish she’d start seeing someone!)

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Published on Jul 01, 2015
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