It’s All In The Ears! Here’s Everything You Need To Know About ASMR Sex

We don’t know about you, but we are certainly guilty of watching the Autonomous sensory meridian response (ASMR) videos on loop throughout the day. Sounds like whispering, typing, poping of a bubblewrap and more can trigger a relaxing, euphoric response and that’s what ASMR is all about.

Now, what if we were to tell you that there is a way to combine the euphoric sensation of ASMR and sex? While ASMR is not considered inherently sexual, the stimulation can lead to more intimacy and pleasure during sex. This brings us to the concept of ASMR sex, and just trust us when we say it can revolutionise your sex life!

What Is ASMR Sex?

In simple words, ASMR sex is the erotic use of specific visual and auditory triggers to add to the sexual experience. During the act, using ASMR can lead to a physical reaction of tingly and relaxing sensations that can instantly lift your libido. Adding ASMR to your sexual experience can help you get into zen mode, making you more open to other sensations. It is quite intimate and erotic if you know how to do it right.

How To Get Into ASMR SEX?

Before you go on YouTube to browse through random videos, you need to take some time out to explore what sounds calm you down. It is an individualistic thing as some people might like the sound of slurping but some truly hate it.

Take a walk down memory lane, think about your fondest memories and try to remember the sounds that were there. Here’s an easy example, if you love trekking, you might like the sound of a river flowing, the pitter-patter of footsteps or the sound of birds chirping. If you love to bake, then it can be the sound of mixing batter or the oven ticking. It all boils down to what you find relaxing.

Just like anything else when it comes to sex, talk to your partner about what you are interested in and find what feels good for both of you. Take some time to pick the sounds that work for the two of you. Even if you don’t have a partner, you can still get into ASMR for a solo sesh.

Don’t Be Afraid Of Trial And Error

There is no cheat sheet when it comes to ASMR sex! You have to try out different sounds to know what is working and what you can add to it. We would recommend you start off with basic ASMR picks like soft whispers, fingernails on the keypad, clock ticking and work your way up.

You can’t force yourself to like something just for the sake of it. Just remember good things take time but they are quite worth it.

Another thing that you can do is create your own sounds. Just get your phone ready and try out things like soft whispers, deep breaths or whatever floats your boats. There is no right or wrong way to get an ASMR experience.

Leave all your inhibition at the door, start digging (NGL, digging sounds are super relaxing) and try out the ASMR sex. You won’t regret it for a second!

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