What does meeting ‘the one’ mean? What does it feel like? While some of us might be struggling to find these answers, a lucky few have known them all along. Here are 10 ways your life chances after meeting the one!
1. You almost always have a go-to plan
You don’t worry if you don’t have a saturday night party to attend or your friends can’t make it for the plans you had – you’ll always have someone to step out for lunch or dinner or just cuddle under the blankets with!
2. You have a constant support system
You never need to find an anchor in other people, because your significant other never lets you down when it comes to supporting your decisions. He is there for you, through thick and thin, just like you always wanted someone to be.
3. Awkward silence? What’s that?
There is never any awkwardness in the silences you share with him. In fact, you enjoy staring into nothingness together just as much as you enjoy talking all through the night!
4. There is no scope for doubt anymore
Insecurities are a part of human nature and even though they might peek-a-boo in your relationship once in awhile, there is never any scope for doubt to creep in. You trust your man and he trusts you as much!
5. Comfort is your middle name
You can be whatever you want to be, wherever you want to be, especially if you are with him. Being around him is like having a warm toasty blanket around you all the time!
6. Your decisions are no longer just about you
When you meet someone with whom you want to spend the rest of your life, it’s not just about him and you anymore, but instead, about ‘us’. You quit being two different entities all the time. Now many of your decisions affect your partner and you’re always keep that in mind!
7. You know you’re never being judged
You can say things in front of him that would have left other people judging you so bad! But with him, it doesn’t seem to matter. First, you know he is never going to judge you and second, you know that even if he does, he has said worse things!
8. ‘Boring’ is no more in your vocabulary
The two of you don’t need to be getting drunk or partying hard in order to have a good time. Things don’t fall under labels like boring and exciting anymore. It’s probably the best part of your relationship – that things can be boring and exciting at the same time!
9. There are no ultimatums
You have fights but both of you understand that these fights don’t have to lead to breakups. You fight, you take some time to calm down and before you know it, life’s back to being happy again!
10. You’re always striving for better
Now that you’ve found something that the rest of the world is searching for, you are always motivating each other to work towards even better things. To do more and be more in life. If that’s not love then what is, right?