If you’re in a group of girl besties, there’s nothing that you can’t do. You see, such groups work on a hundred per cent transparency and trust. They’re indomitable, primarily because they are sacred circles of soul sisters, connected by spirit. So, what is it like to be a member of such a blessed group? How does it work?
Well, if you’re vulnerable, the group becomes your emotional anchor. If you need external validation to realise there’s nothing you can’t fulfil, the group stands tall like your sceptre of strength. It is a close-knit circle of women who know everything about each other and have your backs all day. In fact, here are 8 things no one does better than a group of girl best friends –
1. Certify whether the one you’re seeing is actually ‘THE ONE’ for you
Hey, winning over girlfriends is a MUST. Their brownie points matter more than what one may ordinarily think.
2. Tell you with complete honesty whenever you’re messing with your life
They speak FACTS in all caps.
3. Help you move on from your life’s worst heartbreak
Heartbreaks are crushing, but they become a hundred times easier to move on from once you have a doting group of best friends that ensures you do.
4. Show you the beauty within you on days you fail to see it yourself
5. Capture the most aesthetic shots of you, then declare you as ‘the most good-looking person on Earth’ in Instagram comments
It’s a loop.
6. Candidly ask, answer, and discuss all the awkward questions
Sex life? The enigma that is our bodies? A crush you’re not supposed to have? Seriously…ANYTHING.
7. Listen attentively as you rant about the same thing for the hundredth time
They’re the best listeners.
8. And lastly, gossip the way it’s supposed to be done
Yes, no one can gossip better than a group of girlfriends.
When I say a healthy group of girl best friends is a blessing, I mean it. There’s something about female friendships that thrives in complete solidarity, and it’s very fulfilling. Your girl besties are like unpaid therapists available at your service any time of the day.
