Sex isn’t a part of every relationship, but phone sex can be! If you’re in a long distance relationship or you just haven’t reached that stage with your boyfriend, you can still get a little naughty with him over the phone. Here’s your ultimate guide on how to have phone sex!
1. Where, When, How
We know that sex requires planning. And while you might think phone sex doesn’t, it actually does. There are a few basics you need to cover – having good cell phone reception is one of them. Turning off your call waiting is a good idea too. Make sure you have battery and balance. And definitely lock the door to your room!
2. Think About The Story Line
It’s always good to have some slides when you’re giving a presentation, right? Well, this isn’t very different. Think about a few pointers, say them out loud – make sure they don’t sound funny, more than they sound sexy. Have a roadmap ready!
3. Practice Your Low, Throaty Voice
Remember how Priyanka Chopra sounds when she’s trying to be sexy? Yeah, try channeling a bit of that. Whisper if you have to – but make sure your phone volume is on high so at least he can hear you clearly!
4. Don’t Lie About Wearing Lingerie
Yes, when your guy asks what you’re wearing, we all have the tendency to embellish a bit (okay, a lot) but when it comes to phone sex, it’ll actually play in your favour to be wearing the things you’re describing. Sure, it makes your job easier, but it also makes you feel super sexy!
5. The Spark Is In The Details
We know you might be a bit hesitant to talk too openly about such intimate things. You don’t really have to turn to dirty talk for phone sex – you just have to be good at describing the minute details. ‘And where do you want the tip of my tongue to be?’ – this isn’t too explicit, it’s just detailed.
6. Surprise Him With Kinks
There are so many things you’re curious about. It’s okay if you don’t really want to try them in bed yet – just explore them safely during phone sex. Just because you ask him to spank you on the phone does not mean you want him to do it the next time you have sex. 
7. Take Him Down Memory Lane
One great way to initiate phone sex is by bringing up the memory of a previous encounter. Remind him of the time you both did it in the bathroom at a house party – talk about how it made you feel so naughty! Conversation will flow from there.
8. Ask Him Questions
Phone sex can never be one sided. While he might enjoy just listening to you talk (for once!), you have to get him to interact as well.
9. Moans, F*cks And Some Roleplay
When you can’t think of something to say – moan! When you want to express pleasure but can’t think of a way to put it in words – say ‘F*ck, yes!’. And when you want to spice it up even more – take on a role. It’ll add a bit of kink but also give you a safety net for all the bad language you really want to use.
10. Take Some Help
If even after reading this, you still feel hesitant – that’s okay! We have one more super tip – go online and find a short erotic story that really turns you on. Start by reading it out to him. If things go well, ask him how he would do things differently from the characters. *Wink*
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