Ladies, let’s face it: us guys have tons more experience than you when it comes to hand jobs – simply because masturbation is pretty much a fact of daily life for us. However, obviously we enjoy it way more when you’re giving us a hand job – it’s more pleasure than we can give ourselves for sure. But from sheer self-experience and practice, we know a few things about what can get us hotter, closer and over the edge like never before… Which is why we decided to list out a few pointers, a few helpful hand job tips from guys that you might find useful!
1. Faster is better…
Yes, it is, ladies. While the slow stroking gets us really turned on, if you want things to reach their climax (pun intended), speeding things up does help.
2. And so is wetter!
Unlike intercourse or a blow job, there’s very little natural lubrication here. So the dry friction can get a bit too much. So if you were to lick your fingers a bit before going for it, it would be awesome.
3. No pinching, please?
This is entirely accidental most of the time, when the skin gets caught between your fingers as you move your hand up and down. Please be careful about this, ladies? ‘Coz it HURTS.
4. And not too much nail!
While we do somewhat enjoy that slight edge of your nail along the shaft, ladies, this is one of those situations in which we’re really relieved if you keep your nails well-filed, with no edges where stuff can snag. For no guy wants to the heat of the moment to turn into the piercing ache of the moment!
5. Please play ball?
Yes, it’s true that the penis tends to be the primary instrument of pleasure (see what we did there?), don’t leave us hanging otherwise, yeah? We like it when you get properly handsy and touch our balls too. Not too hard, of course, but a gentle squeeze is a good feeling.
6. If you’re not comfy…neither are we!
You’d be surprised by how true this is. A hand job can take a while, and if you don’t start off in a comfortable position, whether you’re sitting or lying down, chances are you’ll need to move later on (we know exactly how much of an arm workout a hand job can be, LOL) – and the change of pace during that adjustment can really throw us off our stride!
7. A little touching goes a long way.
And no, we don’t mean touching us. We mean you touching yourself. Whether it’s your boobs or somewhere else, the sight of you pleasuring yourself while pleasuring us can definitely work in your favour. And ours, obviously!
8. A helping hand?
Ladies, don’t be afraid to ask us to help you help us. If you’re getting tired or can’t figure out the best possible pace, tell us – we’re totally on board with getting our hands involved as well to keep things going strong.
9. We like surprises!
Like, maybe, a sudden swipe of your tongue? Or the feel of your boobs grazing against our thighs? Welcome surprises, all.
10. The finishing touch…
Last, but not the least. We’re super, super sensitive at the moment of our orgasm. So as soon as we do climax, it’s great if you pace down and move to a gentle stroke. But don’t move your hands away altogether, though – you feel great. Always.
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