There are a few things about girls that guys find attractive when they first meet them and there are a few things that girls have on their wish list when they are about to meet a guy for the first time, isn’t it? So what do girls look for in a guy before anything else? We are sure you have your answers ready but these girls revealed on Quora the qualities they look for in a guy and they have some important points to make.
1. ‘Every girl eventually wants security in her man’s arms and stability in his heart.’ – Yeah, that’s kind of true!
Surabhi Surendra answers on Quora: Every girl, in the deepest corners of her heart, eventually wants security in her man’s arms and stability in his heart.
2. ‘The guy must not try to change who I am.’ – Of course, being able to be yourself is important!
Ronni Amos answers on Quora: The guy must not try to change who I am. For one, you can not change a person unless they want to change. It just isn’t fair.
When a guy accepts me for who I am it gives me the assurance that he truly cares for me and not what I have. It also makes me more comfortable and even more confident as a person.
3. ‘Having a very similar sense of humour is vital.’ – Indeed, it is!
Anonymous answers on Quora: Attraction is quite important, but I think it is often overstated. I think it boils down to three things: physical attraction, the same sense of humour, and shared interests. The attraction has less to do with physical appearance than one might think. Having a very similar sense of humour is vital also. Lastly, shared interests. This is less important, but still helpful in the opening stages.
4. ‘Love. Love makes for everything.’ – Yes, totally!
Belinda Raman answers on Quora:
a. Clean and tidy. Needn’t be handsome.
b. Humor. If you are a funny man, then you are definitely one step closer to being successful at attracting women.
c. Healthy. Good health obviously contributes to our happiness.
d. Love. Love makes for everything.
5. ‘One should not judge the book by its cover.’ – Of course, there is more to a person than just looks!
Anushka Lakhotia answers on Quora: One should not judge the book by its cover.
You know that if he spends X time with his family, he cares. Not only for u but others as well – ‘quality time’. Secondly, I would look, ‘How intelligent is the guy?’ As in, generally how aware is he? Because that tests his presence of mind which tells you that would he or would he not pay attention to your talks. Third comes the looks.
You can read the full thread here on Quora.
So what do you look for?
