Every relationship has its set of rules and boundaries. And every relationship defines infidelity differently. So, while some people might feel emotional infidelity is just as bad as physical infidelity, others might have a stronger bias for one. While some people may feel engaging with pictures of other people on social media is fine, others may not. But in this modern day and age, we’re wondering how people view partners who may still engage with people who have OnlyFans accounts. This Reddit thread we’ve stumbled across where women have addressed their feelings regarding partners doing exactly this has helped us dive into the scenario further.
Take a look for yourselves:
1. “There are exactly zero circumstances where I would tolerate that in a relationship.”
2. “A hard and unequivocal no.”
3. “They would no longer be my partner as I consider that cheating.”
4. “While I don’t shame sex workers. My partner and I agreed this was a ‘No’ in our marriage.” (Lesbians)
5. “Only if my man is alright with me asking other dudes if I can give them money to see their dicks. Oh wait. 99.9% of men are not cool with that. Guess I’m not either!
6. “My boyfriend had told me he thought about subscribing to the OF of a person he had chatted with on Fetlife. I explained that I found that unacceptable. It’s one thing to look at pics people post on fet for everyone. It’s a whole different thing entirely to pay a specific person for access to their content, and possibly request individual things. No. He wasn’t entirely sure about it being wrong. Then he asked a close female friend of his, and she said I was right, and she wouldn’t tolerate her boyfriend doing such a thing.”
7. “In my relationship, we agreed no porn at all. So this is a no.”
8. “How I see it is, if you can pay for it/buy it, then I can sell it. You buy porn? I will sell it. You go to strip clubs to see naked women? I get naked for whoever I want. Don’t like that thought process? Then you know what to do.”
– pinkpixy
9. “Breaking up. I’m at a point in my life I’m not tolerating this nonsense.”
10. “I consider this cheating, so if they would, I would leave them.”
11. “I don’t really care. I’m kinda happy they’re willing to pay for porn since it’s far more ethical. I think I’d get a little uncomfortable if they’re really into this one particular person and make active use of the personal chatting feature. But generally speaking, it’s fine.”
– Vokunzul
12. “Disrespectful.”
– _MLXA
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What are your opinions and feelings about partners engaging with OnlyFans?
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