9 Things I Wish I’d Known Before My First Blow Job!

The first time I went down on a guy was a rather strange experience. I mean, not bad strange or good strange, just strange. And very different from what I had imagined or vaguely seen in movies! Here are a few things I wish I knew before I gave my first blow job!

1. A penis can be kinda…slippery!

Not wet slithery, but you know, still kinda slippery in its own way. Yes, the texture might be slightly different from what you had imagined all this while!

2. Your mouth is not automatically designed to give a blow job!

There will be all sorts of weird, different angles where it will actually feel really uncomfortable!

3. Oh, and don’t be surprised if your jaw starts hurting at some point…

Or even gets stuck. It will start to feel normal (and easier) soon enough.

4. You will want to come up for air more than once!

This is when you realise that even your mouth is very important for breathing purposes! It’s okay, we live and we learn. 😛

5. Oh, and if you happen to choke – DO NOT PANIC!

Panicking just makes everything worse. Stay calm and take deep breaths!

6. If he happens to finish in your mouth…

It will take you by…surprise? 😉

7. Umm, tie your hair back

You do not want your own spit or any of his “stuff” on it.

8. Don’t be disappointed if he doesn’t reach climax just from you going down on him!

It doesn’t mean you weren’t good enough, it just means that what was for you a full fledged activity – was for him a part of foreplay! Which, of course, he thoroughly enjoyed.

9. You don’t have to give it!

Just because he really wants you to. Of course he does! But don’t make yourself do something you don’t really want to do just to make a guy like you.

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