Every girl wants her first time to be special when it comes to sex. And if you’ve had sex already, then you know what really happens and if you haven’t, then we’re happy to help. We found 5 girls on Quora who answered if having sex for the first is painful and if it is, then how to cure that pain. This a must read if you want your first time to be more pleasurable and less painful. Read them all now!
1. ‘Uncomfortable? Possibly. Awkward? Definitely. But painful? No.’ – Okay then!
Shakti Amarantha answers on Quora: Let’s start at the beginning: First time sex should not be painful! Uncomfortable? Possibly. Awkward? Definitely. But painful? No. If it is, then you’re doing something wrong. The most important tip: Pick the right guy! Wait until you are with a guy you really trust to be patient and careful. If you plan ahead, there’s nothing to fear. Good luck!
2. ‘If you do experience discomfort, communicate with your partner and make sure you are fully aroused, have enough lubrication and are as relaxed as possible.’- Of course, all these are important!
Kumari Archana answers on Quora: While many women (and their partners) worry about discomfort or pain the first time they have vaginal intercourse, not all couples have this experience. If you do experience discomfort, communicate with your partner and make sure you are fully aroused, have enough lubrication and are as relaxed as possible. If after these ideas, you still feel either discomfort or pain, try taking a break from intercourse; you can always try again later
3. ‘For me, it hurt like hell! ’ – We can understand!
Christine Fawn answers on Quora: For me, it hurt like hell! But I have lots of friends who said it was fine. Use lots of lube and take it slow! And remember that you can stop whenever you want if you are too uncomfortable!! Just tell your partner you’d rather stick to (kissing/cuddling) for now. If they aren’t accommodating then that is the WRONG person to be having sex with.
4. ‘In anything new, the best way to start is slow with lots of stimulation.’- Hmm… sounds right!
Natalie Niu answers on Quora: In anything new, the best way to start is slow with lots of preparation/stimulation. The better you communicate, the better the experience will be for a virgin.
5. ‘Mine hardly hurt at all. Make sure you are enjoying yourself’- Oh yeah!
Carla Warren answers on Quora: Mine hardly hurt at all. Make sure you are enjoying yourself, it helps.
You can read the full thread here on Quora.
These were insightful!
