There are and always will be some situations in our life for which we can’t help but worry - but sex should definitely not be one of them. Here are 7 things that we overthink about, when in bed, which really are no big deal. So, it would be great if you stopped caring about them, ladies. Read on...
1. Weird noises
Creating unexpected noises during sex is an extremely normal thing. In fact, most of the time it is your body telling you that you like the experience. Besides, it’s a great turn-on for your partner!
2. Worrying about orgasms
Oh how we wish we knew exactly when and how we’d climax during sex on a given day, but very often we don’t, so quit worrying about it and just enjoy it while it lasts, girls. It’s also okay to not have an orgasm every time you have sex; there is nothing wrong with you if you don’t climax.
Also read: 11 Tips For The Girl Who Wants To Start “Experimenting” In Bed!
3. Directing your partner
If you feel like you want something from your partner but are unable to say it out loud, know that it happens to the best of us. It’s important, however, to take charge. It is your sex life as well. So, don’t be afraid to lead in bed and you will discover the magic that it can create!
4. Hair problems
We can’t help it if we have hair that’s difficult to tame. Whether you tie it, gel it or style it in whatever possible way, chances are it is going to find its way in your mouth, in your partner’s mouth, and is basically going to be all over the place during your hot make-out session. Best way to deal with this is to not deal with this at all. Just let your short/long/thin/flat/heavy hair flow!
5. Your body
What your body looks like should be the least of your worries. The fact is that you are amazing the way you are and your partner seems to think so too; that is probably one of the reasons you’re together in the first place.
6. Saying ‘No’
Although it’s a great idea to explore yours and your partner’s bodies in different ways, it is your right to say no to things that you don’t feel comfortable doing. Like we said, it is your sex life too, and you can choose what you want to or don’t want to do without being judged.
Also read: 11 Things You Should NOT Say In Bed. EVER.
7. Taking a break
Don’t shy away from taking a break if you need one. Your body realizes when it needs to stop and this is nothing to feel conscious about. If anything, it only gives you more buffer time to heat things up later!
So ladies, in the words of Bob Marley - don’t worry, be happy!
Published on Jul 27, 2016