My marriage is fixed and the date is fast approaching. This is an arranged marriage and i am really tensed. I am worried and also anxious about first night. He is a very busy man and we have hardly become friends. Is there anyone who underwent same situation?? If then please suggest me how should i prepare what all should i do that day to impress him | POPxo

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My marriage is fixed and the date is fast approaching. This is an arranged marriage and i am really tensed. I am worried and also anxious about first night. He is a very busy man and we have hardly become friends. Is there anyone who underwent same situation?? If then please suggest me how should i prepare what all should i do that day to impress him
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Hi dear. Congratulations. Arranged marriage is like a box of surprises. Be yourself. You don't need to impress him. You both need to know each other first. First night is a hyped thing. You both will be so tired. Appreciate the time you both get together and spend it well. Don't be nervous girl. You will be fine
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Y do u need to impress him?u r nt marryn him to impress him..first of all u ppl try to undrstn each othr, become friends...trust n understn r the foundation of a strong relationship..first of al built dat.
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Ahh. He is also getting married. So basically would be grooms are always on phone chatting with thier brides. But in your case ur groom is really really busy making himself prepared for getting married and guy changes after getting married. You dont have to impress him to have sex. This is what he wants so chill. Think about life after First night. How you gonna adjust with your busy serious groom
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I am also getting married in 2 mnths from now. Mine is also arrange marriage. You don't wry about your first nyt. Dnt try to impress him.. Just talk to him about your feelings your fear. He'll definitely understand your situation. U just need to go with the heat of the moment. Most important thing babe you are bride to be.. Dont take stress about anything. Just be happy and enjoy your courtship period.. Wish u all the best..
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I am also getting married very soon and mine is also an arranged marriage. I was also anxious about first night so I talked to my would be about it and guess what he was also anxious like me. So my advise to you is talk to your partner about your anxiety, your fears I am sure he will understand you and will support you and this way you can overcome your anxiety. Also you don't need to impress him. You both already like each other that's why you agreed for this alliance, right. This is most beautiful phase of your life, don't be nervous. Talk to your partner and enjoy every moment of togetherness. All the best for your wedding and future life....😁😁😁😁
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Buy sexy lingerie preferably red colour !! Smell good !! And just have fun on your first night 😉 simply go with the flow 😍 All the best 😉
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Best will to talk wid ua hubby dat day... full night... Let him know u nd let uaself be cleard frm ol angles....... juzz be chilled... 😇😇😇
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Hey girl firstly heartfull of wishes on your marriage, secondly try to be friends with your woukd be husband and understand more about him his likes and dislike and this will help u to prepare for your first night.👍🏻 good luck girl. Hope this helps you.
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Congratulations dear... It's quiet common to be nervous. If he is busy means, u might have not met frequently. Try to concentrate to look gorgeous on big day. Try to find what he likes most. Gift him something special before u become close. Don't take initiative, allow him to do what he likes...😘😍 All the best girl.
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Congrats dear and don't be panic...just relax and if u want to impress don't do anything just took a beautiful gift and give him.. It ll bra special night... Don't worry so much...
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Yea my frnd is going through the same she is getting married on 11 october and his fiancee is also very busy but its ok it happens even our parents dont use to talk after engagement and they had a happy married life.. Dont worry just be yourself.. have faith on god and just be good to everyone😊
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I think... talking or chatting is veryyyy important during courtship. Its verrry important for u guys to get to know each other.. If he doesn't call... i think yo should let him know that the reasons behind you wanting to build a friendship or bond.. n start calling n his reactions might be quite revealing... come out of ur fantasy n be serious abt d biggest life changing decision in ur life!
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Talk to him put ur view because if u don't u will regret it and what's the harm if he is a nice guy he will understand.
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Hey sweety...just be yourself...don't be hurry at your first night...might be he is also confuse or over anxious regarding for the same...so take time and if you both will comfirtable on your first night you will do.
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Talk to him first and be comfortable with him! Till the time you guys are not comfortable with eachother, no matter how much you try to impress him, he will never appreciate you!
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Hey girl!! in an arrange mrrg set up as far as i know girls dont usualy prefer to become satisavitri types!! B urself... Have some girl atti (all girls have as god gift)😂"toda bhao khao"🙋
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How to dress up that night????
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