I m very very private and resrved person when it comes to being with ppl, sort of socially awkward bt i m extrovert with ppl i love and barely 7-8 friends out of which 2-3 only knows all of me or in my case m totally open book in front of them .. they all have been my friends since base of life say it dey are only ppl cz of whom frienship exist in my life.. but now problem is with course of time this is wat i think that ..my thinking and my friends thinkiing doesnt match, ..they have given lots of happy moments but they have allso hurted me and never gave me kind of love care attention or friendship that i required.. i have known dem frm 8 yrs now... so . I m delima what to do ..as one side i only have dem and on the other hand they hurt me too much .. cz of all this i have became a lifeless person .. please , share your thoughts . | POPxo
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I m very very private and resrved person when it comes to being with ppl, sort of socially awkward bt i m extrovert with ppl i love and barely 7-8 friends out of which 2-3 only knows all of me or in my case m totally open book in front of them .. they all have been my friends since base of life say it dey are only ppl cz of whom frienship exist in my life.. but now problem is with course of time this is wat i think that ..my thinking and my friends thinkiing doesnt match, ..they have given lots of happy moments but they have allso hurted me and never gave me kind of love care attention or friendship that i required.. i have known dem frm 8 yrs now... so . I m delima what to do ..as one side i only have dem and on the other hand they hurt me too much .. cz of all this i have became a lifeless person .. please , share your thoughts .
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Same happened with me too,it's ok you change your friends change everything is normal just chill .
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Chill swthrt.. ☺ u knw wt same its wid me.. n i thnk u shuld tell them directly abt ur feelings, n wt u dnt like n which thng hurts u.. they r ur frnds n they will definitly get u.. ☺
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Hi, anonymous, it's a beautiful day, let's just hold back our thoughts for a minute and take a few deep breaths. After you have done that, and feel a little more in control of yourself remember all those lovely times that you have had, all the memories that you hold very dearly to your heart. Now anonymous, it's pretty human to feel hurt. And guess what we feel more hurt wherever there is love and a true bond. What I want you to do is even though it's very kiddish, is to take out a piece of paper and make two columns of times that they have been there and times that they haven't been there. This one is going to be hard but just be very just and practical, try leaving emotions aside. What do you see, which column is bigger. You will have your answer. Let's stop over analysing relations. The truth is everyone is going to hurt you, you just need to find the ones worth suffering for~ Bob Marley
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If you consider them as friends then go and talk with them about this issue.
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Well gal ppl change as they grow...ppl turn kinda matured ..so may b u can't take things in dat way...after all dey r ua frnds n that is not necessary dat u shud have only these msny frnds ..so don't worry abt dat n njiy being urself.
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Hey, First of all, it's okay not to have five hundred friends, but a few who have been through your thick and thin. Secondly, people grow, their thoughts grow. Introspect a little, take some time off things. Rejuvenate yourself. And if they care at all, they will help you in growing into a better person 😊
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