Hi, I have a colleague frd in ma office.. He asked me to wear stole or shal(kind of dhupatta) when ever I wear kurthi tops and Western tops.. I feel awkward .. When ever he says this to me.. But I don't know why he always asking me to be so girly and cultural.. | POPxo

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Hi, I have a colleague frd in ma office.. He asked me to wear stole or shal(kind of dhupatta) when ever I wear kurthi tops and Western tops.. I feel awkward .. When ever he says this to me.. But I don't know why he always asking me to be so girly and cultural..
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Might he's concern abt u
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My hubby also used to ask me to take stole. I think He don't want to look or stare any other guy to me. He care for me. So I think he too care for u.
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Is he close enough to discuss about your way of dressing? If yes he may be interested in you and showing it this way as a care towards you. If not politely tell him not to comment on your personal things.
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If he is a good friend it just means that he really cares. A man knows what another man is looking at so probably that is why he is asking u for u to be safe from the prying eyes of other not so decent male coworkers. It cud be a hint of liking from his end. It's not about being girly! Although I will suggest u consider what kinda delicates u r wearing. We don't happen to notice much but sometimes some pieces of our clothing affects the appearance of our body. Some may accentuate the cuts or make them look flat or even at times cause the cleavage to really be prominent and stand out. Just a suggestion!🙂✌️🏼
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Sweety dat may bec he knws ppl at ur wrk place..the same happened to me as well and that was only bec frnd card fr me and wanted me to b safe frm baad eyes of men at our wrk place. You can't tell evryone to look at you nicely bt u can always protect urself.
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It's may be he cares for u n may be the reason could be that there might be people in ur office who don't have good intentions and ur colleague knows about it but cannot tell you straight away so he is suggesting you to use dupatta. M not sure but there could be this possibility also.
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He may have said that to express how he likes you the best. But, girl, I assure you, wearing a shawl or not has nothing to do with culture! So, if you are comfortable not wearing one, just don't do it only because he pointed it out. :-)
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Depends on the way he told u that.. he my tell u that cuz he likes to see you in very feminine n girly attire or maybe he said that cuz he's over possesive n doesn't want that your breast area is wd out a dupatta! :3
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Maybe he has a soft corner for you, so he gives you these little suggestions. If you feel awkward just tell him that you'll wear a scarf or dupatta when you feel like and he needn't point it out to you.
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Ask him indirectly may be care for u nd like you🙈
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