Hi. I am maried and living with in laws. i have one daughter age 2 n half. I am getting upset by my mother in law and sister in law behaviour. my sil is maried. my mother in law is very over clever. whatever happens in family. she never accepts that she did it. n my husband and my fil supports her totally. they overtrusted her. As i belongs to very repited and hi fi family. Plz suggests me what to do. | POPxo
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Hi. I am maried and living with in laws. i have one daughter age 2 n half. I am getting upset by my mother in law and sister in law behaviour. my sil is maried. my mother in law is very over clever. whatever happens in family. she never accepts that she did it. n my husband and my fil supports her totally. they overtrusted her. As i belongs to very repited and hi fi family. Plz suggests me what to do.
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Be extra nice to her one day.. And give her cold shoulder the next.. Keep changing your behavior.. Make her confused and scared.. If she cooks, add a wee bit extra salt.. Little things like that... Do this until she considers you her equal.. It's a power game and she's misusing her status in the house.. But whatever you do, NEVER let your husband know anything.. Also, FILs are usually nice people, easier to get on your side than your husband.. Talk to him, buy him things, do whatever and get him to your side! Hope this helps.. let me know.. 🙂😋
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Used to happen with my mom,until my dad started seeing what his mom does and now he doesn't support his mother. Try to show your husband the true side of his mother but be careful ❤best of luck 🌟
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Leave tht stupid family n move on!!
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Ignore them. Don't risk your and your husband's happiness for the sake of this. Irrespective of what you do, at the end of the day they will end up doing what they please and this will lead to lots of miscommunication and misunderstanding.
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Avoid being a part of their politics. If you see that something is going to happen just disconnect urself from there and move .
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Don't get involved in their policies. Be smart as think before you tell them anything. Be in your husband's good book. He's the most important person for you
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