Hey Guys i am just 23, i fell in love with a guy at the age of 18, and i am still in relationship with him. My parents and my entire family knows about him and same goes with his family. after i joined work and i started socializing his nature and behavior started changing a lot.. a much more possessive and irritating. i tried changing him a lot. but its not happening. things are getting worst and i knw if u marry him ill be going mad.. he dosnt respect me at all.. my points and views are not important to him.. i tried talking to my parents also but they like him more than they like me.. they can even choose him over me.. i totally dont have any support from anyone, other than my friends. i cant even hurt my parents neither want to stay my entire life with that guy, whose thinking is getting worst day by day.. he even doesn't like me having any guy friend, even if i have any guy friend he thinks that i am dating him and i sleep with him and all, these are the words which he uses.. | POPxo
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Hey Guys i am just 23, i fell in love with a guy at the age of 18, and i am still in relationship with him. My parents and my entire family knows about him and same goes with his family. after i joined work and i started socializing his nature and behavior started changing a lot.. a much more possessive and irritating. i tried changing him a lot. but its not happening. things are getting worst and i knw if u marry him ill be going mad.. he dosnt respect me at all.. my points and views are not important to him.. i tried talking to my parents also but they like him more than they like me.. they can even choose him over me.. i totally dont have any support from anyone, other than my friends. i cant even hurt my parents neither want to stay my entire life with that guy, whose thinking is getting worst day by day.. he even doesn't like me having any guy friend, even if i have any guy friend he thinks that i am dating him and i sleep with him and all, these are the words which he uses..
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Hey people its happening since 2years.. i am going through a very difficult phase in life.. if i say anything to my parents my mom falls sick and she gets hospitalized.. and makes me week in front of her.. i tried all the possible ways to get out of it.. seriously i even tried committing suicide but den i realized that why shall i end my life for such guy..but i seriously dont knw whats harm in making guy frnds.. or working till 10.30 pm in an corporate office..evryone working here belong to good family and not working for doing wrong things..i have one option left is leave the house and stay away from evryone..but den i think of my mom and stay back..i am just left with no doors open... i give up!!!
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Well Belive me dear d same happened to one of my close frnd.i know how they were in colg n how he chnaged after dat..he used to scold her,used to watch her ,he once made her to get d phone bills.Im colg he was the most gud person we have ever known.. Belive me she suffered a lot bcoz of him he even used big words like s**t,b***h n all she cried a lot n it was like dat wen she joined job she forgot her peace of mind bcoz of him. The matter here is that is no complusion to marry only him bcoz i have been wid him four years or u loved him once.now u don even like him right? Tell d same to ua parents n convince them its better to be sorry now dan confessing later.. Things and priorities change along wid ppl..if u wana gv a try tell him dat u don wna mary him n if u wan giv him a chance or else jus leave n b happy as my frnd..it took three years for her to be as a normal person but its okay she z fine now..even her parents scolded her ..u need to make ua parents understand n get rid of him n b happy .marg z not a smal thing gal n u cant b wid d wrong guy though u loved him once..all d best dear!
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Strange😨
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Explain this to ur family. If they didn't hear u out, be harsh and stubborn (when ur mum is not at home) and let them understand that he is not the right guy for u. Be a villain. Afterall this is ur life.
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U should take a serious step.. u can't live wid a person who is having narrow mentality..ur life will be worse than today because I experienced all these things.. so plz convince ur family n leave him asap.. don't get harassed..it's ur life.
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I also went through the same problem. U have to take decision. Talk to him. Make him clear that these are the reasons I can't stay with u anymore.ur family and his family may blame u..but after 6month and so on things will b better. Don't try to compromise itself for one who disrespect u
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