Turning 30 is like stepping into a new version of yourself, one that’s less chaotic and more self-assured. Your 20s may have been a rollercoaster of impulsive decisions, self-doubt, and trying to keep up with societal expectations. But the 30s? They come with clarity, wisdom, and the courage to say, “No more.”
It’s the decade where you finally start putting yourself first, learn to cut out the noise, and begin the unlearning process of everything you once thought you had to do. Whether it’s leaving a toxic job, understanding that love alone isn’t enough, or realizing that it’s okay not to have everything figured out, the 30s bring a fresh lens to see life through.
In a heartfelt Reddit thread on r/AskWomen, women opened up about their biggest realizations and regrets as they transitioned into this transformative decade. Their stories are as relatable as they are inspiring. Let’s dive in:
1. It is Okay To Not Have a Plan
2. “I Don’t Have To” Anymore
3. Letting Go of Energy-Draining Friends
4. Love Alone Isn’t Enough
5. Wasting Time on Partying Instead of Living
6. Not Leaving Toxic Environment Earlier
7. Knowing When to Stop is Important
8. Focusing Too Much on Being Sensible Over Enjoying Life
9. Waiting Too Long to Try for Kids
10. Not Managing Finances in My 20s
11. Realizing When It’s Time to Move On
12. Letting My Parents’ Expectations Control My Life
13. Prioritizing Work Over Loved Ones
14. Settling Down Too Soon
15. At the End, You Only Have Yourself
16. Putting Things Off Only Makes It Worse
17. Wasting Time Being Afraid to Speak Up
18. Wasting Time Not Valuing Myself
19. Nothing Will Change Unless I Do
20. The Power of Manifestation
Your 30s are a powerful reminder that life isn’t about perfection—it’s about growth, learning, and embracing who you truly are. Whether it’s leaving behind regrets or holding onto newfound realizations, this decade is a chance to rewrite your story on your terms.
So, what about you? If you could go back and give one piece of advice to your younger self, what would it be? Or, better yet, what realization are you carrying forward into the next chapter of your life? Let us know—we’d love to hear your story!
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