I have been with some men who made me doubt my own integrity. I kept looking for my flaws in those relationships because women are conditioned to believe that we are at fault, no matter what the truth is. However, I slowly realized that it was not me, but the men I was dating back then.
There are always some telltale signs that we tend to ignore in the name of love. In this article, we have listed some alarming gestures that every woman should look out for so that they can leave the toxic bonds, rather than suffer in silence. Read on.
1. You Are Pushed To Be Someone You Are Not.
In relationships, individuals change themselves a little to adjust according to their partner. But if someone is trying to completely change you and is constantly questioning your beliefs, it’s a complete red flag.
2. You Are Always Crying More Than You Are Laughing.
Each relationship in the world goes through several ups and downs. You laugh, smile and cry together. But when you find yourself constantly crying because of them more than you are laughing with them, it’s a sign to take a turn and never look back.
3. They Don’t Put Any Effort Into Your Relationship.
In relationships, people make efforts for each other and it’s absolutely fine. However, it becomes an issue when only one person is making all the efforts. If your partner is not taking any initiative to make you feel secure, it’s time to rethink the entire bond.
4. They Are Always Trying To Control You & Your Life.
We often discuss our issues with our loved ones because they are protective of us. However, there’s a thin line between being protective and controlling. If you constantly find your partner ‘commanding’ you, rather than sitting and explaining to you, pack your things and leave.
5. You Are Always Justifying Their Actions.
We, women, have a tendency to defend the actions of our loved ones even when they might be incorrect. But, everything has a limit. When you feel like you are constantly defending your partner – even when you know they are wrong – it’s a sign that they are with you to have someone justify their actions.
6. There’s No Mutual Respect In Your Relationship.
There’s nothing more crucial than giving and taking respect in a relationship. It’s a two-way road and whenever you feel like you are not being respected enough, consider it a massive red flag.
7. They Don’t Support You.
Relationships are all about celebrating each other’s achievements and actions. If your partner demands your support all the time but refuses to provide you the same in return, it’s not worth it.
8. You Become Uncomfortable When They Are Around.
The only relationships that last are the ones where there’s warmth, love and comfort. Nothing beats the feeling of being in your comfort zone with your partner. As soon as you start feeling uncomfortable and awkward around them, it’s time to end that so-called relationship.
Just trust your instincts and gut feeling, always.
