From the very beginning, I’ve always been an expressive person. I’m the kind of who likes to dirty talk in bed. In order for me to orgasm I need to build tension between the sheets. Even though it’s not everyone’s cup of tea, I think it adds an element of surprise in the bedroom and is a sure shot way to turn a guy on.
I’m currently in a relationship with my college sweetheart and to be honest, he’s the best boyfriend any girl can ask for! He’s funny, witty and looks absolutely gorgeous. The only problem I faced with him was that in spite of us clicking emotionally and mentally, he wasn’t able to strike a connection with me sexually. This got me feeling upset and unsatisfied.
Even though he looked all rough and tough on the outside, only I knew how big a softie he was from within. He was gentle with his touch, preferred cuddling and was a man of few words in the bedroom. While some may think this to be romantic, none of it turned me on. I felt that even though he was a gem of a guy, he needed a little push. The kind that would bring out his wild side!
Even though I had no clue how to make that happen, I just knew that I had to try to make him open up! I didn’t want him to repress those feelings. I wanted our time in the bedroom to be hot, vocal and perfect. And, I knew for a fact that I could help him get there!
Initially, I did everything in the book to turn him on. I wore the sexiest lingerie, experimented with sex toys and even tried handcuffs, chocolate and ice cubes! To my disappointment, all my efforts were in vain.
Just when I was about to give up, I happened to talk dirty to him, and guess what?! He responded so well! Each time I whispered words of love into his ears, he would go weak in the knees and give me his undivided attention. The more I complimented him in bed, the more it turned him on! I guess, all he needed in bed was a bit of pep talk!
Taking control and throwing him naughty compliments surely made sex much better. Come to think of it, it’s kind of kinky but that’s the secret to what got us closer in bed. Till today, I stimulate his imagination by talking dirty in bed and sexting him at night and the guy can’t get enough of it!
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