Whether you’re going long distance or are simply stuck in one by default due to the global pandemic, keeping things hot with your partner will help you feel closer and keep the spark alive. While being physically together is not possible, technology can connect us in ways which we can’t even imagine. Case in point: Phone sex! Staying sexy on the phone, while holding your mobile in one hand and placing the other hand… *ahem* somewhere else can be tricky. But don’t worry ladies, we have listed some easy-peasy yet hot phone sex tips that will totally come in handy the next time you want to be down and dirty… digitally!
Easy Phone Sex Tips
These 7 tips will make sure that you become a dirty talk master in your next phone sex sesh.
Schedule the call
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You don’t want to risk getting a call/text from a horny partner when you’re in the middle of a family dinner, right? It is ideal to plan your phone sex session ahead of time so that you know that you have to be there available and ready to talk dirty with no one around.
Set the mood
Try some ambient lighting, scented candles or play some nice, sexy music/porn in the background and set the mood. You’d probably do the same when you’re with your partner on a sex date night, right? So why not do the same when you’re having phone sex?
Dress the mood
Won’t you dress up in something lacy and hot when you’re actually physically together with your partner on a sex date? Why not do the same for your phone sex sessions? Describe what you’re wearing to your partner to make the conversation hotter. As a bonus move, send a picture of your sexy lingerie before the climax.
Talk about fantasies
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Sometimes, the best way to kick-start a phone sex conversation is by talking about fantasies. This conversation can get pretty long and intense, finally leading to the main event. Sounds fun, right?
Switch to a video call…if needed
It is ideal to pivot into a video chat after a few minutes into the audio call. It is a lot easier to carry forward the phone sex with visuals. Ask your partner if they want to make it more fun by putting on an online strip show.
Voice notes, FTW!
If video calling is too much and you can’t get yourself to talk dirty on the phone, you can try sending sexy little voice notes to your partner. These voice notes can be comfortably scripted and drafted as per your own time and speed. You can keep exchanging voice notes instead of being on a call to build up the steamy chat.
Don’t stress!
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Stressing out about something as simple as sex will not make it fun. Take it easy and go with the flow. We promise you’ll have the best time of your life!
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