Men love blowjobs, that’s the universal truth. Whatever you do with his boy parts, is always encouraged and appreciated. Just like every guy is different, so is his approach to getting head. Some men give us subtle hints that they would like us to venture into that territory while others just push your head down there. BJs, in general, are surrounded by a lot of mystery and lack of communication. Should he ask for it, should you give it anyway, what’s acceptable, what’s not and what must he do before the act? There are some things that we just wish men knew about blowjobs.
9 Things We Want Men To Know About Blowjobs
Feel free to send him a link to this post.
Don’t push my head down there
Just because we said no for sex, doesn’t imply you’re getting a BJ. So don’t nudge my head down there, it’s not cool. Even during the act, you trying to push my head is not acceptable. NO! Also, don’t ask for it unless I suggest that I’m in the mood for a little foreplay.
It’d be nice if you maintained a certain level of hygiene
We don’t like to wade through the amazon to find your man bits. Please trim your pubic hair and showering before sex is an absolutely welcome gesture. Women have vivid imaginations, we wonder what happens to the sweat trapped down there, whether you pee and wipe and so on and so forth. In order to make it a pleasant experience for us both, we would really love if you maintained a good level of cleanliness down there.
Feedback is always appreciated
Giving a blowjob is hard work and for some women, it’s overwhelming. We’d love to know if we’re doing it right or what else could we do to make it better. If you can’t be too vocal, even a simple moan is enough to show us that you’re enjoying it.
Do not finish without warning
It’s only polite to let us know that you’re about to come. It gives us time to prepare and adjust our angle or move away and use our hands. An unwelcome shower on our face or body isn’t cool. This isn’t your porno.
Don’t ask me to swallow
Women are moody, they are not going to feel the same way every day. Just because I swallowed once, doesn’t mean I will every time. Some women are appalled by the smell and the taste of semen and that’s totally okay. Don’t force us to do something that we don’t like.
Do NOT pet me
Whatever you do, please don’t give me a pat on my head or my back when I’m giving you a blowjob. It is unsettling and quite honestly, a little creepy.
It’s quite boring
If we’re being completely honest, giving a blowjob is no fun for us. It’s not like your penis has an Instagram feed to keep us entertained. The gag reflex, the sore jaw, neck pain and the boredom are all very real. Please don’t take your time on this one unless you plan to reciprocate.
Don’t thrust without my permission
I’m giving you a blowjob, you’re not having sex with my mouth. Thrusting unless I’ve asked for it or suggested it isn’t okay. It makes me gag and it hurts!
What am I to do with your balls?
The eternal mystery, please tell us, because we really don’t have a clue. What should we do with those little guys? Should we invite them to the party or let ‘em hang alone?
Ladies, how many of these could you relate to?! Don’t forget to share this with your man and all the girls in your life who need to read this.
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