There are different phases in a relationship. While the dating part is easy and fun, the next phase of understanding true love is a bit intense, right? Sometimes your relationship might be super romantic and sometimes you may feel that the love is fading away. And while you do try to find out if your partner is ready to take the relationship to the next well, sometimes it might get a bit tough – since we all know that most guys usually don’t talk much. We found this thread on Quora – ‘How do you know if a man is really in love?’ and girls, guess what? We have men answering this question to help you out. While reading these, you’ll have a cute smile throughout, because honestly, these men have a beautiful definition of love.
1. ‘If someone spends a lot of their time and energy on YOU without expecting anything in return – just so that they can see you happy’ – Yeah! It’s precious.
Andrius Saulis answers on Quora: Time and energy are the two biggest resources that people have in life. So, if someone spends a lot of their time and energy on YOU without expecting anything in return – just so that they can see you happy – it means they love you.
2. ‘If he tells you private things about himself’ – Because trust is the key, right?
Karthigeyan Srinivasan answers on Quora: He trust you so much: Trust means you genuinely trust the other person and don’t feel the need to go through their belongings, constantly speculate on what he is doing or not doing and open up his heart to you. So if he tells you private things about himself, doesn’t feel the need to go through your phone and constantly investigate every little thing you do… it most likely means he trusts you. He ask you for decisions: If he thinks of you first when he is faced with a big decision, if he decides to include you and listen to your counsel when he is deciding, well, that’s a huge sign he might be in love with you.
3. ‘He would never want you to change for him.’ – When he’s in love with you just as you are… So adorable!
Shyam Sridhar answers on Quora: He would never want you to change for him. The ‘you’ after waking up in the morning and the ‘you’ after a facial at the salon – both are equally beautiful to him.
4. ‘For me it was the day I realised that I would literally protect her with my life.’ – Aww… When you are his everything!
Madhav Matle answers on Quora: For me it was the day I realised that I would literally protect her with my life. Love isn’t infatuation, love isn’t obsession, love isn’t jealousy and love isn’t ignorance, or out of necessity. Love is understanding that a person is their own entirely separate entity, as are you.
5. ‘If they’re in love with you, they’ll prove it by their actions…’ – Sweetest thing ever!
Ajinkya Porje answers on Quora: They would never promise you moon and stars, indeed whatever it is, no matter how difficult things turn to be, they’ll choose to be by your side. Let it be anyone, if they’re in love with you, they’ll prove it by their actions.
You can read the full thread here on Quora.
These are so true!
