Let me paint a picture: he came over this Friday night. The touch of his hand coupled with the second glass of wine has set things in motion. A passionate kiss later, your hand is in his hair. Moments later, your head has hit the pillow. Soon, his mouth has found you–and as much as you like his tongue down there, you don’t want to return the favour.
Blowjobs can be tricky, especially if you don’t like them.
Give It Some Thought: Why Don’t You Like Going Down?
Have you really thought about it? What is it that turns you off about giving him a blowjob?
It could be the way his dick looks, tastes or sometimes, smell — after all hygiene is important.
Sometimes, it’s more about the thought process. There’s a certain way we’ve been brought up and you may not agree with it, at least not easily. In this case, it’s best to address it as a part of sex and see how it goes from there. Most times, it’s about confidence. Think about it, all those pornstars take it so far into their mouths, you can’t possibly replicate that! And finally, it’s the cold, hard truth. You just don’t like dick in your MOUTH. Remember, it’s all about sexual preferences.
Things You Do To Fake It Till You Make It
First up, you don’t HAVE to do it. It’s natural to want to please your partner but there’s no reason to get forced into it. Try to keep an open mind and figure out what you do LIKE. Here are a few things to make it the thing you do BEFORE you do it!
Enthusiasm is key. You see, his pleasure is proportional to your interest. So if you show more gusto, chances are he’s going to appreciate it all the more. Start the foreplay by sending him a dirty text of what you want to do him.
Build it up. Making-out is the perfect prequel to oral sex. Bite his neck, unbutton his jeans and lean in for a kiss. You get the drift.
Get a reaction. Put your hand (firmly) on the base of his dick. And start sucking on the tip. Go up and down and try to keep your tongue flat. Try to gauge his reaction: does he like it when your lips are just grazing on the tip, or when you go all in?
Try to build a rhythm. Now that you know what he likes, keep at it. Keep your teeth out of the way. Take a break and look into his eyes. That’ll make him go nuts.
Now that you have him all rearing, you’re ready to go!
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