Losing a friend sucks. It is as derailing as losing a boyfriend; probably more. You don’t just lose a friend, you lose a family member. All those years of unapologetic guffaws, late night conversations and everything awesome goes in vain. In theory, friendships last forever; but, how often does that really ever happen? Just like fairytales, friendships dwindle, too. It may be because of a stupid fight, a serious argument or just a simple incident where one expected too much from the other.
And while sometimes, you can just make sense about your romantic relationship falling apart, you will never be able to understand why you no longer talk to your best friend the same way You will miss them and it will be hard to figure out why you didn’t fix things over the years! There is no one you can have those boy-crazy talks with, nobody to listen to the same thing over and over again, and no one to tell you that it’s all going to be okay!
So, what do you do? And you might already know this but sometimes we need people to remind us of the good things. So, don’t sit back and wait for things to happen. Don’t hold a grudge because she/he may be your knight and is probably waiting for you to make the first move. Make the first move; give them a call. No matter whose fault it may be. Because the next time your boyfriend fucks up, your best friend will hug you and mend those broken pieces within no time!
Go ahead, make that call! You deserve them and they deserve you.