If you’re anything like me, you are completely done with dating because this generation has their priorities messed up. And let’s be honest, I am scared. I don’t want to go on a date with a man I really like only to be ‘ghosted’ or meet somebody on dating apps and then later realize I was being ‘catfished’! Let’s not even get started on the more dangerous trends like ‘love bombing’ and ‘stealthing’! So what do people like me do? Do we stop dating completely or do we risk our hearts and put ourselves out there?
Well, I have some good news, and hope, for all of us! Let’s collectively praise the lord because there is finally a trend that’s not intent on breaking our hearts! In a world of mind games and playing hard to get, ‘breezing’ is the only trend I could totally get on board with.
Breezing is all about not caring. Don’t be alarmed yet! It’s about not caring about the rules that seem to have worked themselves into our dating lives like don’t text him first or let the man make the first move. It’s all about not giving a damn about ‘how’ you’re supposed to behave and just being yourself.
Nothing and everything. That’s the beauty of this trend. You can do everything that you want to and nothing by the rules.
If you want to text him first, go ahead and do that. If you think you can’t behave in a certain way because, well, you might come across as too strong or too passionate, then you put those beliefs where they belong - in the bin!
While it may not be as fun as playing mind games, which honestly, gives me anxiety, it is definitely about being more honest and open about your feelings and, therefore, just being who you are!
In the end, it’s all about living in the moment. It’s about letting things happen in their own time instead of pushing it and it’s about learning to let the little, insignificant things go! And the best part - you are at peace with yourself and confident in your own abilities.
So millennials, this is the trend you need to get onboard with!