Girl, you already know you’re going to have fun. Now, it’s all about showing him the fun he’s going to have as well. Being on top aka the cowgirl or the riding position are perfect for women who love taking charge, or love spicing things up. After all, not only will you be controlling the speed and your pleasure, he’ll also totally dig you picking up the reins. Total win-win! And if you’re worried that you’re too bony or too heavy for him to handle, then let’s be real, these are least of his concerns!
1. Forget What You Saw
Let’s all remind ourselves that porn is a well practised and directed movie. It’s nothing like real life and you need to forget everything you’ve ever seen on the screen. I know it looks like there’s going to be crazy pounding, but in reality, it’s a very relaxed and sensual position.
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2. Practice Practice!
If this is the first time you’ll be doing it, here’s a pro-tip for you – practice being on top. How? Easy! Sit on your bed on your knees and put a couple of pillows between your legs and try moving your hips in circular motion. If this doesn’t work for you and you have a vibrator, try moving up and down on that vibrator for better balance!
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3. Enjoy His Body
Now that you’re on top, you have unlimited access to his body. So use that to your advantage. Kiss him everywhere, run your hands up and down his body, grab his butt and do anything and everything that makes you two feel good!
4. Touch Yourself
You have access to your body as well. Men love to see women playing with themselves. So cup your breasts and run your hands on your body while you are humping him. You can also take his hands and guide them wherever you want!
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5. Talk Dirty
No matter what position you are trying, dirty talk can instantly make things hotter. Whisper something dirty into his ear and then kiss him while you are riding him. It’ll drive him crazy for sure!
6. Flaunt Your Own Body
Your body is a wonderland, girl, so you need to show it off. Lose all your inhibitions and feel confident in your body while doing him! As you grind against him, arch your back and flaunt your curves for his pleasure. Not only will you feel sexy, he won’t be able to keep his hands off you.
7. Give Up Some Control
I know this sounds counter-intuitive but give up some control when you are on top! Moving too fast will only tire you out too quickly. So guide his hands to your waist and let him know that you want him to control the speed and the intensity. This is not only fun but will also help you last longer!
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