If someone was to ask me how my sex life is, I’d first tell them it is none of their business then say it’s okay, average, like everybody else’s and then wonder why I couldn’t say my sex life is pretty great. What is the difference between good and great? And if there is a great, how do I get there? A few hours of research later, I’ve come to realize that a few everyday things can actually make a HUGE difference to your sex life. Here are 9 things women with great sex life do differently and for good reason too!
The bed is a great go-to place but you know the thing about go-tos? They only come once you’ve run out of options! A friend of mine actually told me how she and her husband, who also have a baby together, make it a point to have sex in a new place at least every month. She confessed it’s not easy but it always leaves them laughing by the end!
You know where it’s leading, so what’s the hurry? The train isn’t leaving the station anytime soon. Turn up your foreplay skills with some sexy toys, whips and feathers, it’ll keep things hot.
Buy this whip by Sex & Mischief (Rs 1,250) and have some fun.
It’s good to keep experimenting with your partner. It’ll help you both understand what the other person likes and what you like. Especially since your sex life is already doing great, you have nothing to lose.
For the entire packaged deal, get a copy of The Complete Illustrated Kama Sutra by Dane Lance (Rs 754).
Sex works both ways, there are times when he takes control and it’s all about you. But don’t hesitate in returning the favor, take charge of the situation, direct him and play the power game.
Just because the sex is mindblowing, it shouldn’t be the only thing you concentrate on. Never stray away from the romance - pamper each other, do candle light dinners & plan little surprises to keep the soft mushy feeling going along with the spark!
Gift him a Six pack grooming set by Ustraa for his luscious mane (Rs 1,320). But he isn’t the only one who deserves to be taken care of, pamper yourself, get this beautiful babydoll by Pretty Secrets. (Rs 1,199)
The minute you turn sex into something that can only be talked about behind closed doors, you leave all the possibilities of mindblowing sex behind. It’s actually pretty healthy to be talking to your friends about sex. You never know when you might learn something new, after all! *wink*
Once you are comfortable with your partner, you begin to sleep naked, which is actually great for your body as well as super sexy. Imagine touching your partner’s skin in the middle of the night, leading to something naughty.
Buy a set of Satin sheets (Rs 1,199) that feel like butter against your skin.
Your partner and you have developed a great understanding and always leave room to say no. Whether it is to tell him you don’t wish to have sex tonight or to tell him that you are not close to an orgasm, saying no in bed is both tricky and important.
Another one of my friend, who is single, said she takes one thing she has always hated about her body and compliments herself on it when she is feeling low. Some days, it’s her stretch marks and on other days it’s her pudgy stomach. It helps her feel better about her body when someone else looks at it. Now if that is not a great approach to a sex life, I don’t know what is!
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