Girls, there are so many signs that tell us when we’re head over heels in love with someone, but falling out of love is not an easy feeling to describe. If you feel like the spark is dying, it doesn’t necessarily mean that you don’t have the same feelings for the other, we know how confusing it can be. Here are a few signs to help you decide whether you should part ways for the better or give it another chance.
Yes of course as the relationship progresses, you may not feel those butterflies in your tummy each time you see his message or call and that’s normal. But if you don’t feel like answering the phone or don’t have a sweet response to his cute message then this is a sign that could be telling you something more.
2. Intimacy isn’t the same as before
Intimacy is a way of expressing love for one another. If the feelings are changing or fading, you would not want to get intimate with him and would always look for excuses and ways to avoid such moments.
3. You don’t discuss the future
It is natural for partners to discuss and plan for the future. By future, we don’t just mean marriage, but even plans for the next 3 months. If you tend to stay quiet while he is planning something, it is a sign that you are uncertain about your relationship and your future with him.
4. Communication goes down
Are you talking to him just because you have to talk to him? Do you call him because you HAVE to rather than you WANT to? Well, this is another sign that you are falling out of love. As the love starts diminishing, the frequency of communication becomes less too.
5. Other couples can make you feel a little jealous
If you are questioning the relationship in your mind, you could often start feeling jealous seeing “happy couples”. If seeing couples who are happy together raises questions about your own relationship, then it is time to give it serious thought.
6. Priorities begin to change
Do you finding yourself gradually shifting your priorities and choosing other people/plans over him? This could be a sign about whether or not you want to spend your time with each other.
7. His company doesn’t excite you
If monotony has begun to set in and you no longer enjoy meeting/talking to him, it could or could not be because of a change in feelings. It’s normal to get stuck in a rut, in fact, most couples do at times, the best thing to do would be to plan an outing or weekend getaway to see if it helps bring the excitement back.
8. Cute habits are now annoying
If his habits that you once found cute have now become irritating and you begin to lose your patience with him, then it could be a sign to give your relationship some thought.
9. A missing feeling
Falling out of love, as we said earlier, is difficult to explain but you might have a feeling that there is something missing in your relationship and having this feeling of emptiness is big sign!
10. You’re in the relationship not because of love
If you are in the relationship for reasons other than love, then you are being unfair to him as well as to yourself. It could be time for you to have a word with him to figure out if you are both better off with putting an end to the relationship.