While having sex might be an important milestone in any relationship, there is a possibility that you may not feel ready for it. Fret not, ladies! Here are 11 intimate and super hot things to do if you don’t want to have sex with him yet.
1. Make Out!
If you don’t want to go all the way with your partner or you aren’t ready for it yet, making out can be a good substitute for sex! Go back to your teenage years and concentrate only on kissing and feeling each other up. Challenge yourselves to keep your clothes on until the end!
2. Dirty Talk!
Dirty talk and sexting are easy but super effective ways to add some fun into your life if you’re not ready to do the deed yet. Send each other some super naughty texts or suggestive pictures to take things up a notch.
3. Some Sexy Games?
If you want to heat up things in the bedroom without having sex, you can do that by just playing a sexy, naughty game. Play strip poker, giving each other a lap dance or just play strip pong. Win-win for both!
4. Massages FTW!
Massages are another hot thing to do in bed that can be really intimate. All you need to do is put on some slow, comforting music and give each other massages. They don’t have to be full body massages done professionally, but a neck or back massage can do. Just help each other relax!
5. Movie Nights!
How comfortable and inviting does it sound to be in bed with your partner and just watch a movie together? Too good, if you ask us! Just put on your favourite movie, one that you both will enjoy and cuddle together!
6. Cook Together!
Cooking a meal together is another intimate and fun thing that you two can do together. You don’t have to be amazing at it or cook a full three course meal. All you need to do is just prepare something simple, even if it is maggi, but ensure that you do it together.
7. Boudoir Photo Session
Boudoir photoshoots are all the craze these days. These are intimate, romantic or sometimes erotic photos taken in your bedroom mostly for personal use and not for any public display. Doesn’t it sound fun to click each other in sexy poses just for your own pleasure?
8. Cuddle Up!
How can cuddling not be on the list? Just get comfortable on a bed or a couch and have an intimate conversation with each other. Discuss everything under the sun, from dreams to fears to everything in between. Bonus points if you fall asleep in each other’s arms.
9. Shower Time
Showering together is another activity you can do together. Just hop into a shower together and have some vanilla fun. It’ll be messy, cramped and so much more intimate than anything else. Obviously, there is going to be a steamy make out session too!
10. Pillow Fights
A little play fighting with their boyfriend never hurt anybody, especially when it’s the legendary pillow fight! Eventually, the fight will end with a tickle fest for sure. Just make sure you win though!
11. Slow Dancing
There is something so romantic about rhythmic, coordinated dancing that brings two people closer. Put on some good music and waltz to it together. You’ll feel closer than ever before and trust us, it’ll just romance things up for sure!
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