Sex is ‘great’ but what is ‘great sex’? Tricky, isn’t it? The answer differs from person to person. We usually think that we’ll have to make changes with time or do something out-of-the-box to make sex exciting. But it’s not that puzzly! You just have to make it right for yourself and your partner because every person wants different things in bed. So here are few pointers that we found on Quora from men on what makes sex great for them, and these will definitely help. Read them all and try them!
1. ‘Surprise & intensity.’ – Indeed!
Anonymous answers on Quora: Great sex is always memorable. Memorability comes from one of these aspects: Transgression. Novelty. Surprise. Intensity.
Transgression here means breaking a rule. Pushing back a taboo. Doing something forbidden. The risk of being caught. Novelty is just bringing something new to the event. A change of location, a new outfit. Surprise occurs when the sex, or some aspect of it is not anticipated. The world switches from boring and predictable to erotic and magical. By intensity I mean a level of passion which is enough make you lose control a little. Forget everything and just live in the moment.
2. ‘We already think you’re sexy and wonderful, but it’s those qualities of free spirit that truly blow our minds.’ – Wow, it’s good to hear that!
Daniel Rice answers on Quora: Intimacy. Don’t be shy, be expressive and enthusiastic with your bad-self; we already think you’re sexy and wonderful, but it’s those qualities of free spirit that truly blow our minds. Trust me, you don’t have to be perfect, it really is the effort that counts (like really, really).
3. ‘Unique circumstances. Maybe it happened on a mountain top, just off a trail, in the midst of a fog’ – We see you like ‘adventurous sex’!
Will Wister answers on Quora: Good sex is memorable sex. Here are some reasons why it might stand out: Unique circumstances. Maybe it happened on a mountain top, just off a trail, in the midst of a fog – so other hikers were unlikely to see it. Maybe it was in a parking lot during a lunch break and there was a risk a coworker might have seen it – but you didn’t care in that particular moment because you were that into each other.
4. ‘There’s no time pressure, in either direction.’ – Sure!
Anonymous answers on Quora: There’s no time pressure, in either direction. I’m not worried about the mechanics.
5. ‘It is when my partner is cheerful, affectionate, enthusiastic and orgasmic.’ – That’s sweet!
Jim Heaphy answers on Quora: For me, it is when my partner is cheerful, affectionate, enthusiastic and orgasmic. Conventional physical beauty is far less important to me.
You can read the full thread here on Quora.
Noted!
