At some point of time in life, all of us girls wonder what men actually look for in a relationship, don’t we? And it’s understandable because we want our men to be happy, like super happy… So here is a thread we found on Quora where men confessed what they really look for in a loving relationship and things just make so much more sense now. Just scroll down and read these answers to know want guys want in a relationship.
1. ‘When you see a girl who can put a smile on your face, no matter what your mood is, she’s your girl.’ – That’s the level of surety a guy wants!
Gourav Singhal answers on Quora: A person who can understand him in each and every situation. A true friend and supporter whom he can trust at anytime and in any scenario. In short, when you see a girl who can put a smile on your face, no matter what your mood is, she’s your girl.
2. ‘In a love relationship I look for honesty, loyalty, passion…’ – That’s important to us as well!
Alb Rubio answers on Quora: In a love relationship I look for honesty, loyalty, passion, caring for one another and be able to communicate well my thoughts and feelings. A love relationship should be free of prejudice, attachments, distrust, aggression and assumptions. If you want something good or if you want to succeed in life you must work hard for it.
3. ‘What is important is not what men are looking for, but what your special guy is looking for and what you are looking for.’ – That’s a very valid point too!
Anonymous answers on Quora: What is important is not what men are looking for, but what your special guy is looking for and what you are looking for. And how much are you willing to give into this relationship.
4. ‘Personally I want someone who I can have adventures with’ – Aww!
Mat Kyne answers on Quora: Personally I want someone who:
a. Can make me laugh.
b. Laughs at my jokes, but not all of them.
c. I can have fun with.
d. I can have adventures with.
e. I can talk to, listen to and debate with.
f. Makes me feel safe.
g. Challenges me.
h. I find attractive and vice versa.
i. Has earned my respect.
5. ‘Mutual attraction’ – That’s an important one, right girls?!
Anonymous answers on Quora: Respect and even deference to a certain extent. Mutual enjoyment of each other’s company. Mutual attraction to one another.
You can read the full thread here on Quora.
Girls, now you know!
