11 Questions To Ask Him That’ll Help You Trust Him *More*
Senior Lifestyle Writer
Trusting someone, especially your partner, is a tough call to make. It’s scary and sometimes leaves you quite vulnerable. Don’t worry, we know exactly what it feels like. To make things easier for you and your heart, we have made a list of 11 questions to ask him to help you decide whether or not you can trust him.
1. What made you realize you actually wanted to be with me?
Here is an answer that will show you what he really felt about you when he fell for you. Was it the first look that charmed him or your thoughts and ideas or your laugh... If his answer takes your breath away, then you know he's got you figured out.
2. If there was one truth about your past you could tell me, what would it be?
It’s not always easy to talk about one’s past life, especially the things we want to keep hidden. If he can find the courage to tell you or at least even acknowledge the fact that he has skeletons in his closet then it’s a relationship worth working on.
3. If a hot girl hits on you, what would you do?
He would be flattered, of course. But how would he say no, would he do it respectfully or be a jerk about it? Will he say no at all? It’s important to know how your man treats women before getting into anything serious.
4. What would you feel if I wanted to stop having sex for a while?
You might not even actually do it but this question will really answer your doubts about whether he wants to actually be in this relationship only for physical reasons or for the whole package.
5. What moment from your past would you really like to forget?
Like we said before, we all have our share of secrets. What is that moment that he really wants to forget or when he feels he made a mistake? You’ll know you can trust him by not just the intensity of the mistake but by how he has actually tried to rectify it.
6. When you tell your friends about me, what do you say?
How does he perceive you and more importantly, how does he want his world to look at you? This question really lets you know if he knows you as much as you think he does.
7. Would you still want to be with me if I wanted to study/ work out of town?
Long distance is tough but is he willing to at least give it a shot? It’s the thought that matters, after all!
8. What do you value most in our relationship?
What is the one thing that he thinks he won’t find with any other girl? What makes you stand out in his life as someone special and important? What he values in your relationship will give you the answer to these questions.
9. What would you do if I called you over to my place and my parents weren’t home?
Sure he’d want to get a bit naughty. But does he want to get naughty in a wham-bam-thankyou-ma’am kind of way or does he want to get some breakfast, have a meaningful conversation, cuddle up and get naughty. It’s important for a girl to know what she is getting herself into!
10. Is there a time when I hurt you but you didn’t tell me?
Men can get upset or feel hurt by the things we say or do too. Sometimes, they just don’t tell us about it. Here is a question that won’t just help you trust him better but also help him trust you better and this has always been a two-way street, right?
11. Where do you see yourself five years from now?
It’s important that the two of you are on the same page when it comes to your future. If he wants to fly away to a far off land and you want to get yourself settled in the corporate world then you two need to have a talk, sooner or later.