Sex is fun and it’s better when you can reach the big O. Now, unlike guys, us girls aren’t lucky enough to have an orgasm every time we get action… but there are always ways to get there. So here, read this thread on Quora where people are answering the question of how to make a woman orgasm.
1. ‘The biggest mistake most guys make is that they stop what is working.’
Jeff Ferrara answers on Quora: Most girls don’t like to ‘cum quickly’ - they prefer escalation to the orgasm. Escalate by starting at her thighs, labia, and make your way to the clitoris quickly. The biggest mistake most guys make is that they stop what is working. So if you detect escalation or the explicit “don’t stop”, you better not stop what you’re doing!
2. ‘Take control. Let her lose control.’
Jamie Barth answers on Quora: Take control. Let her lose control. Don’t ask her to make any decisions. Make it clear that you’re going to do what you’re going to do, and she’s just along for the ride. Of course, you need to know the woman really well for this. No two women are the same.
3. ‘If you have that intense and over the top passion, it will just happen.’
Melodie Michelle Wood answers on Quora: Start with her mind, women love long foreplay, if you will, that begins with dinner, stimulating conversation, drinks or 420, kissing, intense touching, etc…then if you have that intense and over the top passion, it will just happen.
4. ‘The slower, the better.’
Anonymous answers on Quora: The slower, the better. Tell her that you’re teasing her and that she’ll get what she wants when you’re ready. This takes time, so don’t let her get bored. Compliment her body, tell her how her body makes you feel good, caress her, tell her what you are going to do to her next, etc... No rough stuff yet, pinches, grabs, bites, or slaps, don’t even tickle. These might cause her to tense up.
5. ‘You need to make sure she’s in the mood first.’
Drew Andersen answers on Quora: You need to make sure she’s in the mood first. That may seem obvious, but if she’s not relaxed, and interested, it’s probably not going to be easy.
You can read the full thread here on Quora.
Well, we usually do know how to reach the big O - here’s hoping a lot of guys read this too!
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Published on Feb 24, 2017