2016 is done and dusted but it leaves behind lots of lessons for us. And in 2017, as we grow up, both emotionally and physically, it’s important to remember all of them. So we did some research of our own and here are 10 frequently asked top sex questions on Google that we’ve decided to answer once and for all!
1. How do I have sex?
It depends on the kind of sex you want to have. But, if strictly talking about vanilla intercourse, you need a partner who arouses you, both mentally and physically and their consent. You begin with foreplay which includes kissing, touching, embracing each other. Then you move on to the intercourse bit of it wherein one partner gets on top of the other and there is penetration. It doesn’t have to be rough and should please both the partners. Here is some advice you can follow to try making it even better!
2. How many calories do you burn during sex?
You do burn a lot of calories during sex but you cannot figure out a general amount of calories that one burns. It depends on your body weight, how vigorous the sex is and how long it lasts. But a nice proper session of sex is equivalent to an hour of zumba or kickboxing!
3. How do I put on a condom?
Condoms are an absolute necessity when it comes to sex. Unprotected sex is never a good idea, unless you are planning a family. There are ways to put on a condom which are not that difficult. You have to take the rubber out of the packet, make sure that your partner is erect so that it fits fine and simply roll it on and cover the penis until the base of the condom rests firmly against the base of the penis.
4. What does sex feel like?
Sex feels a lot of different things to a lot of different people. If you are having sex with someone you truly like, admire and are attracted to, then it will feel like unadulterated happiness that will leave you smiling all day. Usually, the first time may not be the most pleasurable and there may be some pain. After a few times, as you begin to understand your body better the experience becomes much more pleasurable.
5. How do I kiss?
Lean in while tilting your head slightly to one side and place your lips on your partner’s lips. You could or could not have your eyes closed. Pull back after a bit and then touch lips again. Slowly, you’ll get right into the flow.
6. Why does sex feel good?
It’s our brain and endocrine system that create emotions that make sex feel good. They’re also responsible for creating orgasms. So unless your brain is into it, you won’t feel good just by having sex.
7. How can I have a sex dream?
You can have a sex dream much like you have other dreams, by thinking about it a lot. The more you think about something, the more likely you are to dream about it. Of course, there is no guarantee when it comes to dreams but this is a simpler way of doing it.
8. How long does it take to get pregnant after sex?
In case you have unprotected sex and are ovulating at the same time, the conception takes place in the next 48 hours and can last up to four days after sex.
9. How long does sex last?
This completely depends on the age of the two partners, how much energy they have to give in to the activity and how much they actually know about sex. Too short would be somewhere between 1-2 minutes while a desirable time would be 20-25 minutes.
10. Does sex hurt?
Yes and no. Sex hurts due to three reasons - lack of lubrication, lack of proper arousal and the size of the penis. If it is your first time, as a woman, you will feel slight discomfort and that’s normal. But if you keep feeling pain during sex then it would be a good idea to consult your gynaecologist and figure out what the problem is. GIFs: Tumblr