The wedding is fast approaching and your nerves are getting more frazzled with each passing day? Here’s where the bestie swoops in and takes care of it all. It is the job of the Maid of Honour after all, isn’t it? She looks into every detail of wedding planning, tackles the situation when you get cold feet and takes the load off your head like no one else. Here’s why your bestie is the biggest support system during your wedding planning phase.
1. She understands you like no one else does
You don’t even have to spell things out. Right since the good ol’ days, you two have had this amazing chemistry wherein she just gets you without you having to explain yourself! This really helps during the chaotic, emotionally-charged time that is – the run up to the wedding.
2. She is the only person who can actually match your excitement about your big day
You two have discussed this day for a long time now – even before Mr Fiancé actually entered the picture. So who better than her to help you plan and prep for it?
3. She is family!
She knows and loves your parents like they are her own. So she can help you all make crucial wedding-related decisions like no one else can. Besides, your folks know that she’s totally trustworthy. They know she’ll help you out with just about anything that you need.
4. She knows how and when to give you your space
Even though she’s your bestie, she understands that this is a new and important phase for you. She doesn’t give you any grief if you are unavailable or busy at any point.
5. She’s a pro at coordinating things!
Whether it’s getting all your cousins to do a surprise dance, or getting all your friends to show up for a super fun bachelorette, this one has management skills to reckon with. Total #GirlBoss in the making!
6. She acts like her problems can wait
Even though your wedding has pretty much been the highlight of the year, she doesn’t really complain about it. She’s extremely patient about this as she knows that once it’s done, you’ll be all ears for her life discussions and drama.
7. She’s your perpetual shoulder to cry on
Whether you like to admit it or not, you’ve been particularly whiny off late. Instead of pointing this out, she’s always readily available to hear you out and make you feel a million times better!
8. She’s willing to help out any way she can
Yes, this includes running with you for wedding tasks to like tailors’ and for salon appointments. These are not always interesting for her, but she’s by your side because she knows it matters to you!
9. She’s fiercely protective of you!
She’s on the watch out and is super careful that no one should offend or upset you – especially during your wedding week. She’s aware that your third cousin has a tendency to rile you up and makes sure she’s near you when she spots you talking to said cousin. It’s these little things she does that makes you honestly wonder how you’d pull off anything without her!
10. She knows you’d do the same for her
This is a given between two best friends. You can’t wait for when it’s her turn and you get to play Maid of Honour! Although it has to be said that she’s doing everything she is without an iota of expectation. You’re lucky to have her in your life and to reach what they call #BFFGoals!
