What To Do If Another Girl Is Being Mean To You In College
Dealing with a mean girl can be a real pain, and even more so when you have to come face to face with her almost every day! Oh, you too bumped into someone who’s being mean to you? And have no idea how to deal with her? Well, don’t worry, here are 7 ways to deal with a mean girl at college:
1. Smile and be nice to her…
‘Coz it would send across a signal that you are totally unfazed by her rude and mean behaviour. Soon she’ll realize that it’s a waste of time and she’ll step back, automatically.
2. Don’t take her too seriously...
‘Coz what she says and thinks about you is not important at all. You don’t need validation from a girl who is so insecure deep inside that she seeks pleasure in belittling others around her!
3. Never doubt yourself...
Don’t let her mean actions or words make you doubt yourself, EVER. Keep your head held high...coz you’re amazing!
4. Explore college life...
Remember that your time in college is limited, so you must make the most of it. Take part in the various activities that keep happening in your college! You will learn new things and it would actually help you divert your mind from that mean girl!
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5. Surround yourself with happy people...
‘Coz life is too short to spend it thinking about mean people! College is a great place to make friends - so spend your time with people who make you feel happy and good about yourself!
6. Curb your urge to talk about her all the time…
‘Coz she isn’t important enough to become a constant topic of discussion! Moreover, cribbing about her all day would make you seem like a whining child! Well, there are better things to do in life.
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7. If nothing works...confront her!
If you’ve tried every tip and trick to get her out of your mind, but nothing really helped, then you must walk up to her, look her in the eye, and ask her the reason she’s being so mean to you! She would not have expected this and would stop bugging you for the fear of being confronted in front of other people.
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Published on Jul 31, 2016