All relationships go through their fair share of ups and downs and sometimes no matter how hard we try, our efforts seem futile. However, if you are on the verge of giving up on someone, think about it a million times before you break it off. There are a few things that could be big signals to show that you and your guy could still beat the odds and make it work. Read on to find out more.
1. Your folks still like him
Your parents are always looking out for you and they only want the best for you, in all spheres of life. If your folks like him, this is only because they see something in him, and they feel that he is right for you. And let’s not deny it, our parents are always somehow right about everything. So, give it one last shot. Your folks know you better than anyone else, and if they feel like your relationship could still be saved, you really ought to listen to them.
2. You love him more than you need him
Many times people stay stuck in a relationship only because of the comfort it provides. While this may not necessarily be a bad thing, it could also mean that you are denying yourself love and vice-versa. If it’s only the comfort you seek, what’s the point of love anyway? The fact that you love him unconditionally without wanting anything in return is a sign that you really want it to work with him.
That’s gotta mean something, right? We don’t go around telling our deepest, darkest secrets to just about anyone, so if you have found it in you to trust this person it is only because he deserved it. People like that are hard to come by so make sure you treasure what you have.
4. He’s always had your back
Even if it sometimes meant going against his family and/or his best friends. He has made hard choices and harder decisions for you and you might as well remember all these things that he’s done for you because he too would remember all that you’ve done for him.
There are relationships which can be toxic and you could totally be stuck with the wrong person. Yes, love is rather blind. But if this person encourages you to achieve what you never thought was possible, if he makes you shine and vice-versa, you ought to put your differences aside and work towards building what you can both achieve together.
6. You saw a sturdy future with him
And he allowed you to see this future-life with him because he wanted it as much as you did. The only reason you were able to think so far ahead was because he ignited passion in you. You were each other’s “The One”. Rarely do we find someone who we can connect with on this level. Are you sure this is someone you want to give up on?