SEX. We all put too much pressure on that three letter word. Yes, it is an important part of every relationship - in fact, it is an integral part of a relationship. But let's look at the big picture! It's time to take away any performance-related stress and look at some ways to improve your sex life - without, well, actually having any sex!
Believe it or not, exercise really makes everything better. It makes you feel good and helps get rid of stress. Not to forget - one of the sexiest things in the world is a girl who takes care of herself. Try it! You'll have more energy for everything - including you know what...
2. Sleep In Together
Decide a day when you sleep in together - whether it's a Sunday morning or a couple of days every month. Cuddle your way through the morning and have a leisurely breakfast. When you're both at your most relaxed, you will find your relationship heading in directions you never imagined before - be it talking about childhood dreams or big future plans!
3. Go Out With Your Girls!
The key to avoiding jealousy and drama is abundance. Have fun with your gal pals and meet some men for some (very) harmless fun. Boost your ego! Dress up, feel attractive and be open to the attention you receive. After all, if you believe you're sexy, and feel like it, so will your guy!
4. Go On A Vacation Alone
What can be better than experiencing a new destination - all by yourself?! The joy of exploration should be foremost individual and then experienced with another person. If you aren't clued into what you alone like or dislike about travelling, how will you share it with another person?
5. Approach Issues Regularly
Go to a nice restaurant or a cafe - a neutral zone if you please! Have an idea of things you want to discuss with your significant other - and do it light-heartedly. Remember, small disagreements are better than big blow-outs!
6. Have A Sex-Free Week!
Well, it's good to be good in the sack, but denying yourself (and him) this one little thing can put you in touch with yourself in more ways than one. This will also give you and your guy a little perspective on how things are going outside the bedroom - and help bring the two of you closer in a different way.
7. Pamper Yourself!
Treat yourself to a day of indulgence - massages, manis-pedis, waxing... Whatever makes you feel good about yourself! Remember how that felt...before XYZ came into your life? Hold on to that feeling!
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