There is so much that is said about love. But we each have our own take on it. Tara Maheshwari from Tamasha did too. And how! There is so much about true love we could all learn from her. Here are a few of them...
1. Fight for the one you love!
Don’t let them go that easily. True love and someone you can genuinely call your own are find to find. So when you do find them, fight hard to be with them!
2. There is no room for ego where there is love!
Tara didn’t hold back from going after Ved even when he decided to walk away. She knew that their love was bigger than just some ego struggle of who called whom and the like!
3. Don’t be afraid to tell someone how you feel.
Even if they break your heart and walk away, at least you know you tried. You know you put yourself out there and let them know how you really feel. Take that chance. You never know how special something could be.
4. Show your complete self to the person you love
Don’t hide parts of yourself you think are too embarrassing to reveal. Don’t always try and seem perfect and in control. Let go. Be imperfect and vulnerable. Let them fall in love with you for who you really are.
5. If you love someone, don’t give up on them
Don’t walk away when things get tough or when they lose a part of themselves that made you fall in love with them in the first place. Be their guiding light and strength when they feel lost!
6. Love CAN change a person
For the better. So when the person you love is in crisis or their life is falling apart, give them more love than you ever have before. Even if you don’t understand why they are behaving how they are, your love will make them want to be better! It will encourage them and make them want to get back on track!
7. But… Don’t try and change the person you love!
Yes, your love can most definitely have a positive influence on their life. But you ought to be with someone whom you can completely love and accept just as they are! Embrace the good and the not so good in them. That’s what true love is all about.
8. How much time you spend with someone can’t determine how much you will love them
Sometimes people you meet out of the blue can impact your life in much bigger ways than those who have been in your life forever. They show you a new way of life and help you discover a side to yourself you didn’t even know existed. They leave a little part of themselves with you even if it was just a short while you spent together.
9. Help the one you love achieve and live their dream!
Encourage them in finding their true calling and follow their heart's desires. Back them up even if they’re doing something away from the normal!! Your support could be all that they need to reach their full potential.
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Published on Dec 04, 2015