A hand job can be a great way to figure what your guy does and does not like in bed. While it may be very pleasurable for your man to receive one from you, there are certain things you should know about giving him a hand job!
1. Your attitude matters a lot!
When it comes to hand jobs, just knowing what you’re doing (and being good at it) is not always enough. Your attitude matters! Whether or not you’re enjoying it or are actually interested in it makes a huge difference to how much your partner will actually enjoy it. Seeing that you’re into it and are enthusiastic about the act makes it a whole lot more enjoyable for him too!
2. Receiving a hand job can be highly pleasurable for a man even if he doesn’t climax…
To have a girl do to them what they themselves do in private is a huge turn-on for guys! It’s almost a thrill for them to have a girl help them out that way. So even if he doesn’t come, just know that he does really enjoy it – because edging is a real thing! When a guy gets a hand job but doesn’t climax, his sexual arousal increases, his body floods with testosterone and he feels totally energised and more turned on than ever!
3. Eye contact is a real turn-on!
Eye contact is pretty important while giving a hand job. It can actually make a huge difference. Looking into a guy’s eyes really makes him feel like you’re in sync with what he’s feeling – which is a huge turn-on just on its own!
4. A hand job is not really foreplay!
In fact, actual foreplay before a hand job can work wonders. Instead of just starting with a hand job, give him a little tease and a slight sneak peak into what he’s in for. Start by kissing him and then slowly lower your hand to do more. Nothing like a little caressing and stroking down there before you actually get down to business!
5. Dirty talk can be super hot…
A little dirty talk while giving your guy a nice and much desired “massage” down there never really hurt, right? Plus, it will turn him on like nothing else will! A hand job and some dirty talk – two of his favorite things together. If that won’t make him want you even more, we don’t know what will!
6. Don’t miss out on the top…
That’s right, the top part of his penis is actually the most sensitive. It is full of nerve endings, which when stimulated properly can be highly pleasurable. So don’t ignore the highly sensitive top when you’re giving him a hand job. Many women tend to!
7. There is no “correct” grip
It is different for every guy! While some may like the woman’s grip to be really nice and strong, some may like it to be gentle and soft. This is only something you can find out if you ask and talk about it with your guy – so don’t be afraid to! The secret to a great hand job is really finding out what he does and does not enjoy. The point is, after all, to make the experience a great one for him and you both. So don’t hold back from asking questions and getting his feedback.
8. Fast is not always best!
Many times women tend to think that going faster will be more pleasurable for the man and that it will make him want to orgasm faster. Well, ladies, the thing is that there is not always such a need for speed! Sometimes, the slower and smoother you go, the more enjoyable it can be. Of course, you also need to pay attention to what your guy seems to enjoy and go with the flow.
9. Wet does feel better…
A dry hand job is not something most men enjoy very much. They might still enjoy it, but switching it up a little and involving either some lube or even saliva is something that will really do the trick. So don’t be afraid to make it a slightly wet job next time!
10. Don’t ignore the testicles…
They are often much more sensitive than penis. Playing with or very gently tugging on his testicles while giving him a hand job can feel great. Just make sure you don’t squeeze too hard and that you’re gentle! This is a sensitive area, ladies, you don’t want to be too rough!
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